Finally done it !!!!

janer1967
janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,922 Championing
in Coffee lounge
Today after 4 years of separation I have filed for divorce . Need to put a closure on this chapter of my life and move on 

Will invite you all to the virtual party once I get my decree absolute 

Comments

  • Oxonlady
    Oxonlady Scope Member Posts: 563 Pioneering
    Hi @janer1967, now that you've made your decision, I wish you all the best. 
    Change isn't always easy but sometimes it's all we can do to make progress in our lives. 
    I hope the divorce goes through without any unexpected complications. Take care. 

  • janer1967
    janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    @Oxonlady fingers crossed it wont be contested hard for him to deny his cheating when he has fathered 2 children outside of our marriage 
  • Oxonlady
    Oxonlady Scope Member Posts: 563 Pioneering
    Oh dear, yes, I see!

    I hope you can get legal aid to help you finalise the divorce? 
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    @Oxonlady I have applied and also asked for court to claim fees from him so fingers crossed.  The fee is what has stopped me doing  it before now as it didnt seem right I should have to pay for his adultery

    However I had decided it was worth the risk of me having to pay it to put an end to it all 
  • Ami2301
    Ami2301 Community member Posts: 7,879 Championing
    Woo! Very pleased for you @janer1967 :)
  • Oxonlady
    Oxonlady Scope Member Posts: 563 Pioneering
    Well done for forging ahead @janer1967, as this would have been causing you a lot of stress.
    I hope that the whole process will go smoothly for you. Then you can look ahead to a more peaceful future! 
  • Lisatho11987777
    Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
    @janer1967 well done  you can move on then an put it behind you  
  • Cher_Alumni
    Cher_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,715 Championing
    @janer1967 Well done you!! I'll have Beyonce's Single Ladies lined up for the virtual partay  :D
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 56,513 Championing
    Well done @janer1967
  • cartha
    cartha Community member Posts: 1,390 Empowering
    @janer1967 It sounds like you have done the right thing. You can move forward without the baggage. I look forward to an invite for the virtual party :-)
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,443 Championing
    Well done @janer1967 :) Onwards and upwards! 
  • RobbinBright
    RobbinBright Community member Posts: 20 Listener
    Congratulations! It is the time to live normal life. Make it much better and bright in future please :wink:

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