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  • Daniel_2021
    Daniel_2021 Community member Posts: 79 Courageous
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    Hi,
    Great question!
    I don't think our lives have a meaning as this would mean they are predetermined by someone/something else. I do however think we have the ability to give our life a set of values and aspirations to live by i.e to find love, treat people with respect, be the best person you can.
    The reason I don't think it has a meaning is simply because some people have a tough life, how and why would that have been predetermined.
    If I look at my life at the moment it is nothing short of ****; it's full of pain, no independence, a cycle of appointments with little traction and deminishing mental health. I therefore find my life to currently have no meaning or value.
    Sorry my message has taken a slightly downbeat note it's just how I feel. I do love philosophical questions as it's great to see how people can judge a set of circumstances in different ways or where they are in their life their values may change.
    Thanks,
    Daniel 

  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community member Posts: 16,113 Disability Gamechanger
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    Well, by accident I was trying to delete my draft posts, so this ending up being discussed further, & thank you Daniel for your input. My draft post was full of Carl Jung, & probably not relevant!
    I can agree with you in part; whilst you may feel your life has no meaning, what you're going through may impact another's life, & perhaps you'll never know, but perhaps it will nonetheless help another.
    I therefore disagree somewhat; what you learn, what you go through, & sharing this may help others. Isn't that worthwhile? Your life & experiences may therefore matter a lot, so in this way at least can have a meaning, don't you think?
  • Daniel_2021
    Daniel_2021 Community member Posts: 79 Courageous
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    @chiarieds Hi, the ripple or butterfly affect, I can agree with that. You never know the power of your actions which is why most would say to be treated with respect etc. Just that smile to someone who could be on the edge or a brief "hello" to someone lonely may not even register to the person saying it but to the person receiving it it could mean the world that day.
    That's why I enjoy questions like this, it gives you that opportunity to take a step back and scrutinies things properly. My life is so so difficult at the moment, after spending all day in hospital yesterday I could only think of a swear word to describe it, however, over time, it may become easier and change me and my values going back to your point.
    Thanks,
    Daniel 
  • Daniel_2021
    Daniel_2021 Community member Posts: 79 Courageous
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    I've not read the but i've watched a Life of Brian and apparently we're all individual.....yes, we're all individual...i'm not.

    If you've not seen the film the above won't make any sense.
  • leeCal
    leeCal Community member Posts: 7,550 Disability Gamechanger
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    We seem to give life a meaning ourselves. That meaning could be to attain some long term goal or it might be to see life as a journey, a learning process given to us by God, or even the Gods. Each one of us learns to scramble our way through life in our own unique ways guided by illusory lights along the path. 

    “This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.” 
    ― Dalai Lama XIV

  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,652 Disability Gamechanger
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    As somebody who watches Ted lasso, I'm obliged to say football is life
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  • WestHam06
    WestHam06 Community member, Scope Volunteer Posts: 1,396 Pioneering
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    I am inclined to agree with @Ross_Scope

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