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Dating with a disability difficulties

MissMarple Member Posts: 105 Courageous
I'm single and practically housebound due to a health condition. I believe that there must be potential partners out there who would not be deterred by this. If I lived together with someone, we could surely find time during the day when I'm feeling reasonably well to chat, watch a movie, cuddle etc. It would take a supportive and understanding partner, but I can see it happen. However, how to get to that point? 

I'm unable to go out to meet new people. When my friends visit, I lie down to save energy so that I can concentrate on actually enjoying a conversation. But I can't exactly put up an online dating profile saying that my ideal place for a first date is my bed. :smiley:

Is there anyone else here in a similar situation? Or anyone with other difficulties in finding a partner because of your disability?



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