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janeyT Member Posts: 2 Listener
I’ve just joined and am feeling a bit lonely today I had a stroke in 2018 and before it as it’s Saturday I would be out doing stuff. Is there anyone out there who can help me drag myself up, please?


  • Teddybear12
    Teddybear12 Member Posts: 765 Pioneering
    Hi @janeyT I hope you enjoy being part of the Community. If you have any questions please ask. I am sorry to hear you had a stroke in 2018 perhaps concentrate on new things you can now do and try not to dwell on what you did before. Have you joined any Groups for company. Your Local Council would be able to tell you of any in your area. Take care.
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Member Posts: 12,311 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi and welcome to the community 

    Sorry you are feeling lonely hope joining our community will help you 
    Here to help with my experience in hunan resources and employment rights 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Posts: 6,030

    Scope community team

    Welcome to the community @janeyT :) It's great to have you on board!

    I'm also sorry to hear about your stroke, and that it's still affecting you. Have you tried making a small list of achievable things you could do today? That could be anything from getting up and making a cup of tea, to going out for a bit of fresh air, or even meeting up with a friend. 

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  • emilia
    emilia Member Posts: 9 Listener
    Hi welcome to the community. It has helped me to be on this forum and not been very happy with being lonely. I have no close people to talk to. Sorry you are not feeling well and hope you be able to pick up again.

  • Teddybear12
    Teddybear12 Member Posts: 765 Pioneering
    Hi @janeyT How are you doing? Are you able to let us know how you are getting on ? You did message under activity but under the new system this is no longer possible. Take care.  
  • janeyT
    janeyT Member Posts: 2 Listener
    I’m Ok struggling with insomnia and being so tired.thank you for asking.
  • Teddybear12
    Teddybear12 Member Posts: 765 Pioneering
    Hi glad you are OK. Sorry to hear about insomnia it drains you. Take care.


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