Hi, I was made redundant from my job at the end of 2020 like many others and because I provide 35+ hours of care a week for my disabled father I made a claim for carers allowance after being made redundant.
All was good untill about 4 months into my claim my dad got his SDP stopped and was ordered to pay back 4 months worth of SDP. I was horrified I had no idea this would happen so I immediately phoned and cancelledy claim for carers allowance as the advisor told me on the phone that was what's needed in order for my dad to have his SDP reinstated.
I also received a carers element in my universal credit and I assumed at the time that because I stopped claiming carers allowance that the carers element would stop how ever when my next UC statement was sent to me I was shocked to see it still on there. I queried about this at my local job centre and after finding someone in there that actually even knew what carers elemt was they told me it's fine it is right and not to worry because I am entitled to claiming carers allowance I can get this top up but I do not need too receive carers allowance to get this top up.
After the conversation with my local jobcentre and my father having his SDP reinstated I just assumed it was the carers allowance affecting his claim for SDP so I have for the past 6 months happily claimed carers element along with my dad receiving his SDP having absolutely no clue that apparently carers element can also affect my dad's SDP😑
My auntie who used to be a carer for her mother made me aware and I started searching online and some websites like turn2us say that carers element will stop the cared for persons SDP how ever entitledto states the opposite claiming that only carers allowance will affect SDP and carers element will not. I am really confused. I am a pit of nerves now and I am really worried about the situation. I don't understand how a top up off £37 weekly can **** my father off his £67 premium. If true and his SDP is affected by the carers element then what is the point in either carers allowance or carers element if you do not live with the person you lose money and not gain, how is that possible?
Also in that 6 month period I have worked part time jobs and have sometimes received £0 for my universal credit or little amount like £60 so would they still be able to recover his SDP for those months?