Morning

SueHeath

Is that the eldist one @Nicetomeetyou22 - whats up with her xxxx

Nicetomeetyou22

It is @SueHeath she wants me to pick her clothes for her everything I showed her she says no she's not had breakfast she's not ready etc xxx

SueHeath

mmmmm playing you up - would she do it for hubby bad xxxx

Nicetomeetyou22

She has been nasty to my partner saying he's not her dad so he can't tell her what to do but he's been there for 11 years of her life but tbh @SueHeath I can do without this right now I'm so upset ATM:( 😡 xx

SueHeath

yep and she knows it as i said she's started with the terrible teens - your best not to bit and try and ignore her - i'm afraid you'l have a few years of this once she's fully at that stage bless you - do you have a family case worker that you can talk to and get some hints how to handle her. 
Hopefully she'l know that your upset and feel bad about it xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

Don't need case worker @SueHeath we were all teenagers once xxx

SueHeath

Ha ha yep and i was a terrible one oh the joys of Mother hood xxx

janer1967

I was a shocking teenager now it's coming back at me I know what I put my parents through 

Tbh toby not that bad but has his moments 

His grades are dropping which isn't good and he is totally obsessed with thus girl doesn't think about anything else 

She hardly ever goes to school so not a good influence . Don't know hoe they get away with it if toby off for 3 days school are knocking on the door 

@Nicetomeetyou22 you have my empathy think girls are more hurtful to mums than boys 

I worried about mine less when they were small than I do now 

Nicetomeetyou22

@janer1967 I'm trying my best by all my kids full attendance at school gleaming reports apart from my oldest girl she got 1 red for pe but her teacher is horrid someone threw a basket ball at my daughter few months bk on purpose it bounced off her head and her pe teacher [Removed by moderator- name, identifying information] I hate her said oh [Removed by moderator- name, identifying information] I'm so glad I was here to see that so I rung school and blasted pe teacher she's horrid xx

Nicetomeetyou22

The pe teacher put my daughters Adidas trainers and pe kit in the bin she denied it though as teachers do 

janer1967

That's horrible 

My sons school infuriates me they only concentrate on the high achievers and do nothing to help those that need a bit of a push 

He is just finishing year 10 hardly gets any homework and they never contact patents if grades are slipping just comes as a surprise when we get the report twice a year 

He really needs to knuckle down this next year or HD won't get on the college course he wants 

His half term report was good but after him telling me last night he has failed grade for maths which used to be his best grade I'm dreading his report 

Already told him I will be doing more checking and support next year but it's hard for me with my vision to help him 

Anyway rant over lol 

Your kids are credit yo you 

Nicetomeetyou22

Thank you @janer1967 Toby maybe finding it hard as covid took a toll on everybody including children missed a lot of school 

Nicetomeetyou22

Morning all it's wedensday xxxxxxxxxxx

SueHeath

Morning @Nicetomeetyou22 xxxx

Nicetomeetyou22

Good morning mummy @SueHeath I hope you slept well and I do hope you're all OK xxx

SueHeath

Morning my nutty daughter ha ha - you sound good and on top form today my lovely - all's good in my part of the world - are you all okay xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath my crazy mummy yes I'm top of the world 🌎 today as heatwave gone haha 😄 3 my kids broke up yesterday other 3 today mu sons going on school trip today bless him 💙 we are all OK 👍 children are all sorted for school my eldest girl left 15 mins ago and other 2 boys get picked up in 45 mins xxx

SueHeath

Love it when your this good - our heat is still here hopefully not as bad - got to go out today anyway - ahh bless the last day then the long holiday. You up to much today xxxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@SueHeath I got up today and a switch must of switched haha well its wacky wedensday I have appointment over the phone about my son at 10.20pm then I'm taking my girl twin into town to get her brothers bday presents partner watching other 2 kids wbu? Xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

10.20am silly me lol xx