Hi. I’m hoping to get some help as I can’t get through the maze. Sadly an ex is in very poor mental heath after multiple attempted suicides from Dec. He was still working until Feb, onto statutory sick pay for 3 weeks of Jan until a sick note as unfit to work from Feb. He applied for UC after the sick note. I was not aware of a UC50 form on his journal, nor that Discretionary Housing was separate to the council. There are now 2 months of debt as no UC was only paid in Mar less the Statutory Sick Pay. Jan SSP didn’t cover bills, Feb nothing and 1st payment in Mar. I’ve completed all the forms now. Does anyone know if the DHP and LCWRF are backed dated today try and recover the 2 months debt? How can you deal with the debt after a complete breakdown on their behalf? There are 4 credit cards that have cash advances to cover the rent and bills.
Next up= I’ve been told of carer finance support. I can’t understand the difference in carers element or carers allowance? I have UC for myself on LCW but am self employed so all extra income just comes off the UC. My income has halved as been having to cancel work to go and help for 2 months. Is there any help I can get that won’t just be deducted as I’ve cleaned out my savings now to help him and literally don’t have extra to get down 60 miles to help him. I’m so overwhelmed with this all as when it’s crisis states there is no time to try Google help, so you give up and try battling on.
Any help, advise or sanity saving tips most welcome as I’m so desperate now.
Thanks !