Motto of the day

Nicetomeetyou22

Surround yourself with people who are going to lift you higher ❤️

Nicetomeetyou22

Thank you @Biblioklept ❤️

Nicetomeetyou22

Thank you @Teddybear12 Takecare ❤️

janer1967

That's a great motto unfortunately we sometimes don't have control to pick who is around us though it would be nice if we could 

Nicetomeetyou22

@janer1967 I see where your coming from but from now on I am only going to let positive people around me no more negatively in my life onwards and upwards for me from now on 

janer1967

Good for you @Nicetomeetyou22
I didn't mean it negatively it's just as the saying goes you can choose your friends but not your family . But you can choose if you spend time with them 

Nicetomeetyou22

@janer1967 I know you didn't mean anything by it I don't have any family as I got brought up in Foster care so I don't see them plus my so called mum dad have died so has 2 of my brothers and my big sister my partners mum has died aswell and my own son has died which is very hard but I have my kids my partner so that's enough for me plus I have supportive friends on here like yourself and esp @SueHeath so I would just like to say a big thank you ❤️ xxx

janer1967

No need for thanks I know you have lost your family members and a child and empathise I too lost a child in early stages of pregnancy it never leaves you 

You do  great job with your kids and should be proud they are all you need as is my son 

With all you are going through I understand you only wanting to be around positive supportive people 

iza

Carpe Diem,  Veni Vidi Vici 

L_Volunteer

This is a really lovely motto of the day @Nicetomeetyou22. Thanks for sharing it with us. Are you surrounding yourself with people who are lifting you higher? I hope you are.

I am looking forward to hearing everyone else's motto of the day. Only if people would like to share of course 

SueHeath

Nicetomeetyou22 said:

@janer1967 I know you didn't mean anything by it I don't have any family as I got brought up in Foster care so I don't see them plus my so called mum dad have died so has 2 of my brothers and my big sister my partners mum has died aswell and my own son has died which is very hard but I have my kids my partner so that's enough for me plus I have supportive friends on here like yourself and esp @SueHeath so I would just like to say a big thank you ❤️ xxx

AHH thanks for that nicetomeetyou that means alot to me xxx

SueHeath

sorry @iza can you translate please ha ha 

Nicetomeetyou22

Thank you @janer1967 sorry for your loss I lost a baby in Sept 2016 at home it was awful then I had my rainbow baby in 2017 then lost my son nearly 16 weeks in pregnancy in 2019 he died inside of me as he had Edwards syndrome plus all his insides was on the outside he was 2 disfigured poor boy hospital would not let me see him we had private cremation paid for by the NHS my partner went to his funeral and my eldest daughter I could not go as I had all the kids to look after as it was in the summer holidays I'm riddled with guilt we bought him a big bunch of baby blue and silver roses I'm just gonna take it day as it comes xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@L_Volunteer I'm surrounded by my loved ones partner and kids xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@sueheath your welcome xxx

Nicetomeetyou22

@sueheath I think @iza comment means I came I saw I conquered xx

janer1967

I had a build a bear in memory of mine and had a heart put inside which I wrote a small note on 

I've still got it now 20 years later 

iza

Hi @SueHeath, @Nicetomeetyou22 translated it correctly.  Carpe diem (latin words) means enjoy the day and take the most from each day. 

Nicetomeetyou22

@janer1967 that's lovely xxx