Would you get married again

Lisatho11987777
Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
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I have been married three times if you have been married before would you marry again if  the chance came up

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  • leeCal
    leeCal Online Community Member Posts: 7,537 Championing
    I don’t think I would actually. Some years ago I would’ve said yes definitely but now I’m older I’m not sure I want the kind of hassle you can get in relationships. It might be nice to be self sufficient and single for a change. I think 🤔 
  • Cartini
    Cartini Online Community Member Posts: 1,107 Trailblazing
    Probably not; she`d have to be exceptional for me to take a 2nd plunge.
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 60,274 Championing
    I can't see it for me now, but who knows what's around the corner
  • Siwheels73
    Siwheels73 Scope Member Posts: 750 Pioneering
    @woodbine, completely with you there, albeit only 15 years in!
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    Ive been married 3 times and no I wouldn't marry again it has come i
    Up few times in conversation with the bf 

    Long term we plan to live together but not for about 10 years when he retires 

    For me it's the relationship not the piece of paper after all having the paper didn't stop the others breaking down 
  • Lisatho11987777
    Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
    It's lovely to see how other people feel  I wouldn't get married again my partner now we don't live together but have been yogether 23 years  I am to independent and like my own space when needed but we get on realy  well he lives 5mins away since we moved which has been good 

    My partner has also been married before  to me its about being committed  to someone I don't think a marriage especially in my case shows commitment my first marine didn't even last a year 2nd marriage 2 years  3rd marriage 5 years but only together 3 years 

    Years ago marriage was different  these days  most people just live together 
  • Lisatho11987777
    Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
    @Teddybear12 sorry to hear about  your daughter I know how that feels hopefuly as you say you will be able to be friends 

    Sometimes it's hard to share a life with someone get used to their  habits and as people get older things change or circumstances change marriage isn't for me  but is for others 

    My mum and dad were married for 50years before he passed and I belive I will be with my partner  until then without being married well I hope 
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    @Teddybear12 I totally understand how what you went through impacted your relationship 

    It would be nice to be friends again if you can both achieve that and hope you have some happier memories you.can share 
  • leeCal
    leeCal Online Community Member Posts: 7,537 Championing
    Commiserations @Teddybear12
  • Lisatho11987777
    Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
    @woodbine that's so nice to hear hope you and SM are OK  
  • easy
    easy Scope Member Posts: 683 Empowering
    My husband passed away 4 years ago. The 3rd June is our anniversary and it would have been 40 years. I sent myself some flowers that cheered me a bit, but I do miss him so much. I can't imagine being married to any one else now.
  • Lisatho11987777
    Lisatho11987777 Scope Member Posts: 5,874 Championing
    @easy sorry to hear that x
  • waynewheely1
    waynewheely1 Scope Member Posts: 3 Contributor
    No my last marriage I had my health used against me and my health used s a tool to make me feel lower than a slugs testicles it pushed me to attempted suicide also still fighting for accses I told my current girlfriend never to the gold band 
  • easy
    easy Scope Member Posts: 683 Empowering
    Thanks Lisa, but there's no need to be sorry as we where very happy and I still have lots of wonderful memories. 

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