Would you get married again

Lisatho11987777

I have been married three times if you have been married before would you marry again if  the chance came up

leeCal

I don’t think I would actually. Some years ago I would’ve said yes definitely but now I’m older I’m not sure I want the kind of hassle you can get in relationships. It might be nice to be self sufficient and single for a change. I think 🤔 

Cartini

Probably not; she`d have to be exceptional for me to take a 2nd plunge.

Biblioklept

I don't know. I swing between it. I've never been married and think maybe it would be nice but also not. Are you hoping to get married a 4th time @Lisatho11987777?

Sandy_123

I can't see it for me now, but who knows what's around the corner

Siwheels73

@woodbine, completely with you there, albeit only 15 years in!

janer1967

Ive been married 3 times and no I wouldn't marry again it has come i
Up few times in conversation with the bf 

Long term we plan to live together but not for about 10 years when he retires 

For me it's the relationship not the piece of paper after all having the paper didn't stop the others breaking down 

Lisatho11987777

It's lovely to see how other people feel  I wouldn't get married again my partner now we don't live together but have been yogether 23 years  I am to independent and like my own space when needed but we get on realy  well he lives 5mins away since we moved which has been good 

My partner has also been married before  to me its about being committed  to someone I don't think a marriage especially in my case shows commitment my first marine didn't even last a year 2nd marriage 2 years  3rd marriage 5 years but only together 3 years 

Years ago marriage was different  these days  most people just live together 

Lisatho11987777

@Teddybear12 sorry to hear about  your daughter I know how that feels hopefuly as you say you will be able to be friends 

Sometimes it's hard to share a life with someone get used to their  habits and as people get older things change or circumstances change marriage isn't for me  but is for others 

My mum and dad were married for 50years before he passed and I belive I will be with my partner  until then without being married well I hope 

janer1967

@Teddybear12 I totally understand how what you went through impacted your relationship 

It would be nice to be friends again if you can both achieve that and hope you have some happier memories you.can share 

leeCal

Commiserations @Teddybear12

Lisatho11987777

@woodbine that's so nice to hear hope you and SM are OK  

easy

My husband passed away 4 years ago. The 3rd June is our anniversary and it would have been 40 years. I sent myself some flowers that cheered me a bit, but I do miss him so much. I can't imagine being married to any one else now.

Lisatho11987777

@easy sorry to hear that x

waynewheely1

No my last marriage I had my health used against me and my health used s a tool to make me feel lower than a slugs testicles it pushed me to attempted suicide also still fighting for accses I told my current girlfriend never to the gold band 

easy

Thanks Lisa, but there's no need to be sorry as we where very happy and I still have lots of wonderful memories.