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SueHeath said: I would prefer it if a letter was sent out first, with the reason of their visit.You hear of that many clever scams lately.
Biblioklept said: The poster needs help with their benefit claims, not welfare checks and little communication. It's also not the initial claim they have trouble with it's the managing it once it's active with variations in income each month.
poppy123456 said: They showed their identity cards so i don't see what the issue is here. You complained not long ago that you could no longer claim means tested benefits because there was no help out there for you. You constantly moaned about this, thread after thread. Then you were contacted out of the blue, which was obvious that they wanted to help you. You didn't return their call so they knocked at your door, again trying to offer some help and support. Quite unbelieveable really that you refused their offer of help and shut the door on them. They wanted to know your finances simply to try to help you.Astonishing really! Am i missing something here??
Cartini said: Wow! Serious attitude problem there. Shutting the door on someone who is concerned about the welfare of a person is unbelievable.
poppy123456 said: The thing is, they've done nothing but moan about not getting any help then they throw it back at them when someone tries to help.
poppy123456 said: Biblioklept said: The poster needs help with their benefit claims, not welfare checks and little communication. It's also not the initial claim they have trouble with it's the managing it once it's active with variations in income each month. The council benefits officer would do exactly that. They would also help with future issues too.
racyguy said: Cartini said: Wow! Serious attitude problem there. Shutting the door on someone who is concerned about the welfare of a person is unbelievable. Not unusual at all.I lost a close relative earlier this year My 38 year old niece hung herself at home as she could see no future for herself. Social Services were fully aware of her situation and had tried a couple of times to see her. Conveniently for her at the time she was able to be 'away' from her home so as to avoid contact with them.At the inquest last week the presiding judge slated Social Services for not making further and better efforts in making sure that she had the help she desperately needed.I don't need any involvement from Social Services due to our financial position.So yes it was OK to refuse to deal with that individual.As for the Council employee, he had an attitude that led me to believe that if he wanted to come into my home he would do so. Letting him in was one thing how would you propose I manage to get him out - just ask him nicely?
Cartini said: Your opening paragraphs seem to contradict.Your posts on here tend to be quite aggressive / unsociable; maybe you misread a completely innocent care visit.I don`t want to get into a bun-fight over this other than to say I agree with the comment Poppy12345 made earlier.
L_Volunteer said: That sounds really tough @racyguy. I can hear your frustrations. What do you think might help this to feel and become more manageable for you at the moment? We are here for you if you would like to talk this through further with us
Biblioklept said: I can't recall but did you ever approach your MP about this @racyguy?
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