Why can facebook dating succeed at finding a guy with joint interst but didn't work disabled dating
Splatmate24
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My name is Caitlin. I have some learning disabilities. I tried tons of disability dating websites but none of the guys didn't work at all.and disabled dating you always has be paid after a free trail ended . yet all disability dating sites I've been to all have the same users or will not be free at all . I also tried to contact a learning disabilities agency, but I was unsuccessful. I still haven't changed my process. I've given up on disability dating websites. A dating agency to learn disabity was love2meeU which I was trying to join but could not. One of the guys at the disabled dating site suggested trying dating on Facebook to see if you find people with common interests and have a common learning disability. I did tried Facebook dating and was is hit and miss. did get lot of matches one guy was very rude when he did reject me and i said i wasn't interested in him anymore and blocked him after. the one guy that i did match did texting each other and did ask for my Messager but didn't work and did ask for social media do you used ? he said i used instrgram,snapchat,tiktok. I also said similar. when with snapchat . did ask for video call but he was in apple store at time. i has requested a call from video yesterday but his mother needs help and he change to today at 7 pm. was same time at 7pm. is good or another bad timing. did good or bad time. did try to text to let me know to change the day and date today instead
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Hi there @Splatmate24 and thanks for sharing your experience of online dating with the community
It's sometimes frustrating when you can't seem to find a time to have a date, for one reason or another we can all be quite busy people. Are you looking forward to it?
I hope you enjoy chatting to him later today if you do get to have your date, we'd love to know how it goes. I'll tag @Leo_Aces in case he has some thoughts to share on timing and online dating 0 -
Hey @Splatmate24, as @Alex_Scope says embarking into the world of online dating can take time and patience.
It sounds like you are gaining experience trying all the different sites, apps etc. It’s great that you have connected with a guy to chat with. 😊 Sometimes it can be a good idea to communicate via social media platforms whilst you get to know each other, before exchanging phone numbers.
I hope you can chat to each other tonight, let us know how it goes with 😁0 -
@Alex_Scope . In college and high school, they did teach about online safety. when is i was in college the that also did online safety. not given out personal details. the police were did do online safety course at my college I want to and did watch vidoes about what not do or what is right things to do with online safety .1
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That's really good to hear @Splatmate24 it's important to stay safe online How did the date go last night? 0
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@Alex_Scope. it didn't happen. lead me on read and miss the hour. that were about time that 7pm. didn't even called back. i given up and went back to online dating.0
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I am sorry to hear it didn't work out this time @Splatmate24, have they been in touch today?0
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So sorry @Splatmate24, have you heard from them today?0
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@Leo_Aces not today . I give up with that guy . on to next one .1
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@Alex_Scope. nope they not be teach . the last message was sent at 8pm they missed the calls. i didn't reply back after that.0
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That's a shame, thanks for letting us know. Onwards and upwards! And do you mean they have a hard time communicating using technology here?nope they not be teach
Online dating can be tough going, especially if calls make you feel anxious or stressed. Do you ever feel that way about calls @Splatmate24?0 -
@Alex_Scope he was ok with only texting me but when is come to the video calls didn't even bother calling and he knew that i ask more then Onces beforehand. I only has bad experience with Facebook they not very nice people or users.0
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Perhaps best to move on to the next then @Splatmate24, hopefully you can find somewhere you feel comfortable with getting to know other users, that's the important thing 0
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@Alex_Scope. already did found another guy that similar interest have a learning disability. starting texting and wait and see .0
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That sounds hopeful @Splatmate24 What kinds of things do you have in common? 0
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@Tori_Scope similar interest were video games,photography,doesn’t smoke . Looking for serious long term relationship.0
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It sounds like you have plenty in common then @splatmate24 What kinds of video games do you enjoy playing? 0
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@Tori_Scope . oon pc has be the sims 3 and roblox, minecrafts. On my nintedo swith has be splatoonn 3, spatoon 2 . also has dogs as pets .0
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@splatemate24 hi Caitlin I just joined love4life as I’m currently looking for a relationship with a female I could see myself with as I’ve had no lucky with dating app as they always keep asking for money0
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Computer games are fun. I like the story type games like “Life is strange”.0
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