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Hi, my name is ann01!

ann01 Community member Posts: 2 Listener
Hello everybody 


  • ann01
    ann01 Community member Posts: 2 Listener
    About Christmas I can’t buy my husband a Christmas present this year and is birthday is on Monday cant get him anything 
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Community member Posts: 21,964 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi and welcome to the community 

    I wouldn't worry too much hopefully he will understand the situation.

    If nothing else make him a card with personal message in or and leave little notes around the house telling him you love him etc 
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,983 Disability Gamechanger
    edited December 2022
    Hello @ann01. Welcome to Scope's forum. It is great to see you have joined us. How are you at the moment? 

    I can hear that you can't buy your husband presents at the moment. It sounds like this might be really difficult.

    Is there anything, in particular, that might help this to feel more manageable for you at the moment? We are here for you and listening to you.

    Please don't hesitate to let us know if there's anything we can do to support you. Sending you hugs.

    Take care for now and we will look forward to, hopefully, hearing from you again soon  :)
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  • Alex_Alumni
    Alex_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,562 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @anne01 and welcome to the community, it's great to see you join :) 

    I'm sorry you're having trouble with presents for your husband. If you mean they cost too much, have you spoken to him about your worries? It's always good to talk openly about these things if you are able to.

    If money isn't the reason you're having trouble, is there anything else we can do to help?

    I'm sure there are plenty of gifts out there that don't cost a thing, perhaps your present could be something you make, or something you could do together?
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