I think she is up to something

DJS7P
DJS7P Online Community Member Posts: 29 Contributor
in Relationships

Hello everyone

A while ago I was posting about my autism diagnosis and how I should tell my partner about it.

The thing is I think she is messaging other men on various social media platforms. She has become secretive and evasive around me. Do I confront her about this? I'm really devastated.

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  • gym
    gym Online Community Member Posts: 61 Connected

    Speak to your partner.tell her your concerns.best not to accuse your partner of anything until you have concrete evidence.maybe she is messaging new FRIENDS she has found on social media. Like I said Speak to your partner. Don't confront like you mentioned

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,259 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Hi @DJS7P, that's a really difficult situation to be in and I can see why you're feeling so devastated about it.

    It does sound like you might have to have a calm conversation about things with your partner. There might be another reason that she's doing what she's doing. Like gym said, perhaps you can ask her if there's anything happening without accusing her of anything so things stay nice and calm. Hopefully she'll feel able to be open about what's going on.

    Hope you're coping okay in the circumstances.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,794 Championing

    Hope everything works out OK for you @DJS7P . Sending the best of wishes to you .

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 4,826 Championing

    Hi, why not begin by sharing your secret with her and see what she has to say about that?

  • DJS7P
    DJS7P Online Community Member Posts: 29 Contributor

    Hello again everyone

    I know it's been some time since I last posted, but I thought I'd give an update.

    I have actually caught her sending, to be blunt "suggestive" pictures to other men online.

    I'm devastated. I know I haven't been perfect myself (as my other posts will attest) but I deserve better than that.

    I'm going to confront her about this. Thank you all for listening to me, it means a great deal.

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,259 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm really sorry to hear that @DJS7P. Nobody's perfect but you don't deserve to be messed around or lied to. Hope things start to improve for you soon.

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