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  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    Good morning everyone!

    It's rain and wind time here again too. @Teigr it turned out when father and son spoke yesterday he didn't expect his dad to marry again and that surprised him.

    Also he asked his dad about the house. He was told it was still his inheritance and that I had no interest in it other than if his dad died first it was my home till I died…..money causes more problems than it solves!

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 178 Empowering

    MMorning Everyone i hope you are all in good health.

    Sorry to hear about some of you having tooth problems. I had two of my wisdom teeth removed in my teems. I caught the bus back to work, I couldn't speak to the driver, I was sore and dribbling all the way to work, I was soon well enough to talk again. They seem less likely to remove wisdom teeth now days, unless they haven't the room to grow. Hope the dentist goes well @Grumpy1314

    @Marydoll5 I'm sorry to hear about your fiancé's son comments. It maybe that he knows his father's care will be upto you once you marry. Being that you have spent several years looking after and getting him back to health, his son must have trusted you with his father's care, he may just feel it's more formal after your wedding.

    I don't think he said these comments to hurt you or your fiancee, probably more about him.

    Enjoy your wedding you are obviously meant to be together. Any concerns of his son, will more than likely pass soon after the wedding. He has trusted that you have both been happy all the years you have spent together. I think alot of people have nervous feelings before a wedding, but come the big day, im sure everyone will be happy for you both. Have a lovely day, blessings to you both.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Too right @Marydoll5 ,I'm glad my parents had nothing.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    I don't want to hear anything about hosepipe bans until 2028.

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @Teigr thanks for making me laugh I needed that!

    @Elvisdog thank you too.

    It's sad that at 37 his son never bothers with him and is so money oriented. He got a huge deposit for his house getting married from his dad and even the money for his wife's engagement ring.

    I was appalled when he wanted to put his dad in a nursing home when he was ill in hospital. I really don't care about money and possessions. I just think that time is the most precious thing you can give anyone.

    I want the anxiety and uneasiness to go as it has wrecked my mood. I don't want to spiral into another deep depression. The weather isn't helping 😕

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    The more you give some people the more they want @Marydoll5 ,Mr Teigr's brother is all about money.

    Not to worry though.As I always say to Mr Teigr,he'll be the richest man in the graveyard one day.

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 178 Empowering

    @Marydoll5 it says more about him than about you and his father. Don't let him take your happiness away. I find in life that these sort of people have karma come there way, eventually catching up on them. At least you know how he thinks, you can put things into place once you are married. Funerals bring out the best and worst of people, he can't wait for that. I hope you both have a beautiful wedding and long life together. Nobody knows what's around the corner, not even the son. He may find himself in the same situation one day if he has children'.

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @Elvisdog I really appreciate your insight. I feel sad at it all, so unnecessary.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Morning all.

    Awful weather again.

    Happy Easter and all that jazz.🙄

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,123 Championing

    Morning everyone

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 178 Empowering

    Morning everyone, dull and windy in brum .

    Hope everyone is having a nice Easter weekend.

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,736 Championing

    Morning everyone I hope yous are doing well and enjoying your Easter weekend.

    @Sandy_123
    Morning I meant to msg you earlier but I’ve been reading some benefit related threads and my heads about to explode so I’m off them for the foreseeable 🙄 I hope your good.
    I’m just going to make my breakfast then give you a msg.

    @Marydoll5
    Hiya Mary I’m not on here much but I’m so glad I read through some posts this morning.
    I’ve just read your messages about the stress from your partners son.
    Please don’t let it upset you yous have come through so much heartache and struggles in the past, now it’s your turn for some happiness and my goodness do you deserve it.
    It’s clearly his inheritance he’s worried about 🙄
    I really hope you can relax and get to enjoy the next few weeks and I’m wanting to see some beautiful pictures of the happy day. 🥰

    ❤️

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 10,950 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Morning folks, how's everyone doing on this lovely day? 😁

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,020 Championing

    Woke up 4 times for the loo

    I've a cat with diahrhea

    I'm. Tired out

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 2,907 Championing

    Fed up today with all this benefit reform stuff playing heavy on my mind and I had a text saying my pip review is underway.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 10,950 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Oh dear @Amberpearl that sounds less than fun and quite stinky! Hope the little one is ok soon and you manage to catch up on some sleep.

    I totally understand @luvpink it does feel like we're being bombarded by it all. Maybe take a break and try to avoid reading anything about it for a few days? It's a very good form of self care! I'm sure the review will be fine when you eventually get a decision. 😊

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,123 Championing

    Afternoon @Lou67 @Albus_Scope

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @Lou67 it is so good to hear from you x I have only started to post again after a long time away.

    I was doing really well and even went on a residential weekend retreat a while ago. It was based on Louise Hay teachings and was called Heal your life. It was 24 women, all strangers and I really enjoyed it. It was a big thing for me to do.

    It's terrible how it all went out the window with one conversation. I'm trying my best to quell the anxiety but it's hard.

    Hope you and your mum and all the family are well. So good to hear from you!

    Good afternoon everyone and have as good a day as possible 😀

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,586 Championing

    Albus can you pls share letter from my mp pls before you go thankyou

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 10,950 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Do you mean the discussion you posted @Catherine21 ?

    It's always best to tag @Community_Scope just in case I'm not in on that day, or not in charge of the comment queue. 😉

    Good to see you @Marydoll5 but sorry to hear you're not doing so great. Please be super gentle with yourself and remember these things happen and have absolutely no impact on your amazing progress, it's just a blip. ❤️

    I'm off now, so I hope everyone has a lovely and relaxing Easter. Catch you all on Tuesday. 😊

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