What do you guys think ?

Lilla88
Lilla88 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener
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I have a boyfriend since 1 year. It is a happy very peaceful relationship. He is planning to move in with me, posts me often on his WhatsApp etc. on his fb he has displayed on his relationship status : “ in a relationship”. I have just checked it today and I have realised that the relationship status completely disappeared , as he hid it. I have a second fb account and I also checked on there too. Which was again hidden. I have asked him why did he remove it ? He said he never did and then he sent me a screenshot of his fb that it still shows “ in a relationship” for everyone.
when I checked I have seen the relationship status again. He said it is most likely a technical glitch from my side and then he got angry for not believing. I am so confused …

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  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,221 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Hi @Lilla88, sorry to hear you're feeling confused about things. It's good that you felt able to talk to your boyfriend about it though. Do you have any reason to suspect he might not be telling the truth?

    Hopefully it's all a misunderstanding and you can both move on from it soon ☺️

  • Lilla88
    Lilla88 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener

    Hi @Bluebell21

    We see each other a lot. He is involved with my family, sometimes I spend 2 weeks at his. We live in the same city. Consistent and very caring man. So this is very out of character and I don’t get it. As mentioned before he posts me everywhere on social media too. It is hard for me to believe it was a technical glitch to be honest.

  • Lilla88
    Lilla88 Online Community Member Posts: 7 Listener

    @Bluebell21 Thank you lovely x

  • eddieG75
    eddieG75 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

    hi everyone my name is Eddie I am 49 yrs old and single I have two kids from a previous relationship who mean the world to me I am a type 1 Dieabetic with MS ( Multiple scoliosis) I feel whenever I mention this they just don’t want anything to do with me I am a very laid back guy who loves a good laugh normally at myself lol

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,221 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Hi @eddieG75, welcome to the community. Sorry to hear you haven't had much luck when you mention your situation.

    I've heard some people saying that their disability is a good filter for people when it comes to dating. While it might feel bad at the time to get rejected over something that you can't change, it shows that they don't understand you and they may not be the best partner anyway. Never nice to be turned down but hopefully the right person comes along for you soon ☺️

  • eddieG75
    eddieG75 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

    thank you Rosie no they de not my kind of people but at times you do wonder if you will ever meet someone

  • egister
    egister Posts: 1,110 Pioneering

    No Facebook - no problem. The topic is not worth the electricity spent on viewing.

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