How is your day going?

Katiedimelow20 · 4:14PM

I'm back home today and my mum already been stressing me out and been none stop being anxious throughout this holiday that been on. Is was same with airports to . My mum kept overwhelmed me and kept not asking for my consent to go into my personal stuff and that what make me so more frustrated with my mum and I get the point I just ended explosive into my mum and I don't think my mum respect me at all .

Albus_Scope · 4:38PM

Sorry to hear that @Katiedimelow20 I'm guessing you've already spoken to her, and this seems like it's a regular issue for you. Would it be possible to use a mediator like your GP or a friend, so they can speak to your mum on your behalf to let her know how much this is all affecting you?

Chris75_ · 5:04PM

I take the poet, Philip Larkin's approach (Look it up).

Easier said than done these days, but how far have you looked into getting out?

Schildpad · 5:45PM

@Katiedimelow20 this is a difficult situation. Your mother does that because she knows you do not like it. Not because she needs to. You show annoyance and she enjoys it. I had similar issue and only way was leaving home. No need to be drastic but you could do the very same. Check on her stuff. If she does not like it you just tell her. Or do not show any feeling and maybe she will stop doing it. Some parents they believe they owe you.. but yes you talk to your GP and maybe they can say something.. it makes no point to get angry wirh your mother because she will keep Doing it. Unfortunately we do not choose our family.. larkin was right. They try to makes us like themselves even when they are far from perfect.

Amberpearl · 7:17PM

I'm. In agony with my knee

Can barely walk

Climbing the stairs is, excruciating

So is getting on and off a seat

I can't even sit on a toilet seat

I've tried ice and paracetamol

Don't work

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