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  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Morning folks, up and at 'em! I hope everyone manages to stay warm, dry and pain free today. ❤️

    And dont forget we now have a special discussion especially for having a grumble about things. 😊

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing

    Morning all.

    Its rainy, windy and really cold here.

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 274 Connected

    I'm back home today and my mum already been stressing me out and been none stop being anxious throughout this holiday that been on. Is was same with airports to . My mum kept overwhelmed me and kept not asking for my consent to go into my personal stuff and that what make me so more frustrated with my mum and I get the point I just ended explosive into my mum and I don't think my mum respect me at all .

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Sorry to hear that @Katiedimelow20 I'm guessing you've already spoken to her, and this seems like it's a regular issue for you. Would it be possible to use a mediator like your GP or a friend, so they can speak to your mum on your behalf to let her know how much this is all affecting you?

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    @Katiedimelow20 this is a difficult situation. Your mother does that because she knows you do not like it. Not because she needs to. You show annoyance and she enjoys it. I had similar issue and only way was leaving home. No need to be drastic but you could do the very same. Check on her stuff. If she does not like it you just tell her. Or do not show any feeling and maybe she will stop doing it. Some parents they believe they owe you.. but yes you talk to your GP and maybe they can say something.. it makes no point to get angry wirh your mother because she will keep Doing it. Unfortunately we do not choose our family.. larkin was right. They try to makes us like themselves even when they are far from perfect.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing

    I'm. In agony with my knee

    Can barely walk

    Climbing the stairs is, excruciating

    So is getting on and off a seat

    I can't even sit on a toilet seat

    I've tried ice and paracetamol

    Don't work

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 274 Connected

    @Schildpad my mum will come with me to doctors appointment with me even I when I ask I don't want them to. I can't really control my own life since my mum took over my health care and other stuff with a learning disabilities so I can't even move out since is Impossible. This not helpful. This just make me angry to

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 274 Connected

    Albus_Scope maybe but my mum will comes with me no matter if going out in public eg Sainsbury's or Tesco my mum will came . Only time that I have my own time at another charity that I go twice a day. I just feel anxious and frustrated and also stressed at same . My emotions already feel out of control and holiday was another add layer of anxiety and being anxious and has mask a lot . Did breakdown with anger explosive. Both my parents did shout at me .

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    Ok matbe next time she needs to go to the GP for herself the GP could tell her. That is a very controlling behaviour.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    morning. Anorher day to deal with for several hours until bed time... I hope it will go well but already feel anxious.. anyway I have to go out...

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing

    Painful

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Morning everyone! I hope everyone manages to have a mostly pain and anxiety free day. 😊

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing

    Resting my leg

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing

    Been in bed all day feeling unwell and trying to keep warm.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Hope you both feel better soon @luvpink and @Amberpearl

    Is anyone up to anything exciting at the weekend? 😁

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1068644#Comment_1068644

    Thank you.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    afternoon. i seem to be more in pain than before. anyway at home in bed watching telly and tomorrow again i will have to go out i hope i will be able to cope with the commuting and dealing with people. now it is time to try to relax.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    It's a horrible thing to deal with @Catherine21 have you thought what you might do with the ashes?

    I had some of my old dog, Leeloos ashes mixed into a silver ring, which I never take off. And my old black panther of a cat, Deez, had his ashes scattered under the liner of the pond I dug, as oddly he loved water. So they're both with me when I want to say hi to them. They may be physically gone, but they're always with me, just as Fifi will always travel with you. ❤️

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,307 Online Community Team

    That's a really great idea. What a lovely way to commemorate Fifi @Catherine21 ❤️ I'm so sorry you're going through this but like @Albus_Scope, she'll always be with you in spirit.

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 4,554 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Fifi will always be with you @Catherine21 and that is a lovely idea 💜 I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through, Fifi was part of the family and I always loved seeing the photos of her on here

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