Moving due to disability bit can't physically do it

Losingallhope
Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

Hi I'm disabled three times over and have been struggling living in my current home which was brand new when I moved in. I've been offered a bungalow which is more suitable for my medical needs in several ways. The problem is I physically can't do the move and I'm so worried of losing the bungalow. I don't have enough money to pay movers is there any national charities that could possibly help or does anyone know of government support for this I know there is the discretionary housing fund but I was refused last time I moved. I just don't know where to turn

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  • Losingallhope
    Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

    I've searched both I can't find anything specific to what I need

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Community Member Posts: 8,829 Championing

    Perhaps a local welfare rights organisation would be more aware of something local?

    https://advicefinder.turn2us.org.uk/

  • Losingallhope
    Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

    Yes I've thought of that I'm going to call DIAL charity in the morning thanl you for commenting & your links

  • OverlyAnxious
    OverlyAnxious Community Member Posts: 6,171 Championing

    Hi,

    This is not something I'd normally suggest but as a move would have a huge positive impact on your life for years to come, perhaps it would be worth looking into a loan for this one off payment, so you can repay it slowly afterwards.

    I've been after a bungalow myself for several years now so know how rarely they become available in some areas.

  • Losingallhope
    Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

    That would be a good idea but my credit rating only gets me as far as a phone contract

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Community Member Posts: 8,829 Championing

    A local credit union can be a better option than high street national lenders.

  • Losingallhope
    Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

    Already tried that I'm not in a position to save any funds I'm medically retired due to my health

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,515 Connected

    Hi @Losingallhope, I don't really know if this helps you at all but when I moved into my (council) bungalow in August 2022, I could not afford my moving fees. Was quoted between 250.00 and 400.00. I ended up using a local 'man and van', they moved everything, including my piano which was hard work 🙄😬😅, for 120.00 (only moving 2/3 miles away). I cancelled some bills/direct debit to be able to move. Not saying that's the right way but it worked for me, enabled me to move and caught up with bills during the 12 months later. I basically got to where I needed to be. I'm not saying it wasn't stressful, it was, but I hope you get to where you need to be too. For your health and your wellbeing 🫂.

  • Losingallhope
    Losingallhope Community Member Posts: 66 Contributor

    That is an option I have thought about I think my issue is I find it hard to accept I can't do things anymore I'm stil thinking of doing it myself knowing full well it can have a catastrophic effect on my health if I do

  • Otteline
    Otteline Community Member Posts: 63 Contributor
    edited September 2025

    Have you been a member of a union during your working life? They have discretionary funds and might be able to help (even if you are not still a member).

  • mmyself
    mmyself Community Member Posts: 3 Listener

    This is EXACTLY my situation.at the moment..i have been a counciltennant for 43 years i aM in a 3 bed semi ..massive garden lovely locality..but my health is deteriorating fast i have been offered a bungalow and i love it but one week turnover..is immpossible.i have been abused physically by my son who lived with me this is also a reason my mental health is down the swanny..after 8years putting up with his **** i had him arrested he has been charged on 3 counts of assault..im not a wimp or victim..hes my son. and we could of plodded along in that house ok..its MY HOUSE ..ANYWAY..HES ON BAIL ....GOOD..IM ONMY OWN..ABSOLUTLEY WEARY AND SOOOO TIRED WITH STRESS HOW CAN I BE EXPECTED TO DOWNSIZE IN A WEEK ?..

    M

  • mmyself
    mmyself Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Posts: 4,515 Connected

    Hello @mmyself, looks like this is a bit of an old thread but a very warm welcome to you to the forum, I hope you're doing ok. Please feel free to ask anything if you need to; we're here to help you if we can.

    @Losingallhope, I don't know if you're still on here, 9 months on from your post. I hope everything went well for you and that you were able to move to your bungalow.

    Thinking of you both and wishing you well.