Mental health

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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Fingers crossed it goes ok @WhatThe .

    My stomach seems to have settled .

    Just got lots of negative thoughts going around in my head

    Like not being good enough etc

    Get that alot

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Please take care of yourself @WhatThe

    Hope u can have a peaceful day

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Hope everyone has a peaceful day

    Please take care of yourselves

    Best wishes always

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    I dont think I am good enough

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    Apologies for getting the date wrong. That's more time for me to worry on your behalf then! Kidding there!

    Whenever I thought about signing in to chat about your assessment, I started thinking about my own assessment because it had been so hard to get diagnosed. I also found myself wishing Albus was here to guide you through it and knew that wishful thinking wouldn't bring him back.

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,828 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    You are good enough @Strawberry1, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I'm so glad your assessment is soon. It'll be good to find out what the result is so you can understand yourself a bit better.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    Strawberry, I didn't know you'd been in care. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You are actually amazing to have endured all you have, as am I

    🌵

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    No worries @WhatThe , thats what life had planned for me .

    It was hard yes

    Its had an effect on me yes

    But thank you

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    I appreciate your kindness @Rachel_Scope

    Thanks

    Yes it will be good to know

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    No apology needed @WhatThe .

    Yes it would have been lovely to have Albus around to help

    Such a shame

    But hes with the Angels watchin over us

    Keep your fingers crossed

    Just gonna have a bath

    Got a dinner to cook

    Please take care

    Hope u have a peaceful day

    Chat soon

    Best wishes always

    Thank u so much

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    He validated everything I'd been through as a late-diagnosed autie.

    I notice Nightcity says he got his diagnosis immediately. Well, during my second autism assessment I did sense that he believed me and that I would pass. However, I didn't hear anything and waited 3 months to chase it up because I was so afraid of another refusal. Don't do what I did and wait that long!

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    Amberpearl, I found myself quite upset about your predicament at Christmas, losing your father on Christmas Eve put my own loss into perspective (father's funeral in December) and losing your mother in January. Being cold on top of all that would make anyone unhappy.

    I'd worried about my daughter starting therapy then read Jane's story about her young son going into care. It's hard not to be affected by people's stories here even if I'm not signed in to comment. It's hard not to care and I do 😓

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,828 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    How does your daughter feel about starting therapy @WhatThe? I can imagine it's worrying as a parent as it's a big thing to undertake, but hopefully it will help her.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    She's halfway through a residential month and I'm giving her space without messages from me. I don't think she could see a future without it. She was made redundant while off sick and days after completing a house purchase in March!

    This is her second claim for unfair dismissal and she must be wondering how to make her way in the world as an autistic person (she was a key worker through the pandemic and hardly stopped to breathe).

    Thanks Rachel, she knows she is loved and isn't ashamed of her MH. She's very capable and determined to make a difference for autistic girls and women!

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,052 Championing

    ..made redundant a month short of two years' service..

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,828 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Oh that must have been so stressful for her just after buying a house. Autism is so misunderstood by a lot of people that it makes it hard to navigate the world. I'm so glad she isn't ashamed of her mental health. She should be proud as we're all unique! It's wonderful that she wants to make a difference for others ❤️

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Thank you for the info @WhatThe

    Fingers crossed it goes ok

    Want it to be over and done with

    Im anxious but i will get there

    Please take care of yourself

    Thank you

    Best wishes always

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Hope everyone has a peaceful rest of their day

    Take care

    Keep safe and Keep warm

    Best wishes always

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 3,562 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Good morning @Strawberry1

    Hope you're having a nice morning and have had a peaceful start to the week, do you have any plans this week?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,462 Championing

    Apologies for my late response @Mary_Scope ,

    I hope you are ok

    Hope you had a peaceful weekend

    I have no plans for today

    I have the Autism assessment on Wednesday

    How about yourself