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Beautiful she was my perfect little angel she was my soul and my heart they bring so much joy they are worth all the pain xxx
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They are. I realise I don't think I have one photo of my 4; I have hundreds on my PC and 'phone but not one proper photo. I might send some off to get printed to put on wall xx
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Nice post
I think sometimes it's refreshing to allow emotions like this to run their course, I wouldn't say it feels "pleasant" as such but it feels "right", in contrast to lots of emotions - especially ones generated by mental health issues
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Your observation brought a tear or two to my eyes. Thank you. They're not of sadness but of ? relief at such a lack of judgement and generosity of spirit. Having been 'ostracised' by family and 'friends' (who really must think mental health issues will never affect them unexpectedly as they have me and disrupted my life), this is the only place I can share, and that means an awful lot. So my thanks to you @66Mustang from my heart. (Edited @66mustang - the following is NOT directed at you, ๐ซ ).
Let me share/stress - for those of you who judge me, I say this. I acknowledge I can be a pain in the **** , I strive, daily, to improve (do you??) so that I am not; knowing that when my dogs are not here neither am I. I am 'happy' with that - my GP knows so don't worry; so I make the most of now, I'm going nowhere whilst I've got my beloved companions by my side, so you're stuck with me for now. So I seek support/solace here and feel no shame whatsoever in saying that. I've not experienced unkindness here but I've seen others who have: not for me thanks. And I'll always call it out when I see it. Just be kind, and if you can't be, take a step back to reflect on how your words affect others, it can be very upsetting.
As I've now been up all night with a very sick dog I will be back when I can. Take care, don't be silenced and be kind xx
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It was a miss post on the wrong thread..
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Oh no whos sick ??? You are none of those thkngs you are pure of heart loyal couragous supportive a real kind compassionate human being xxx
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I get so confused how things change surly expressing and sharing and supporting each other is a wonderful thing i habe felt such warmth and care in my lowest moments i agree Mustang eapecially in a world that is losing humainty to allow someone to be able to feel safe enough to express themselves is important and we are tslking about loss real loss animals that our world our universe invaluable the kindest words can bring comfort in these moments of grief that your not alone
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I think back ..... when ypu was pit in my arms you was smaller than a coke can how i was broken inside and hurt from the life and people time after time how i felt lost undeserving unloveble and then you was put into my arms i promised to love you always well that was so easy to do .โฆ i cry everyday fifi it doesnt get easier my love for you was deeper than any ocean you gave me everything you was the perfect little girl oh how i long to smell your paws and ears i love that smell you would let me cuddle you for hours if i wanted you loved people kids everybody oh i miss you its so hard without you my little love
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Thinking of you and sending virtual love and hugs. X
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Today was hard sotting in hospital and i couldnt breathe knowing you wasnt at home to greet me
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Thankyou luvpink bope your well today x
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I really hope you're okay Catherine and it's not fractured, like my wrist!!! Take good care and be kind to yourself! Xx
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Sorry just seen thankyou xx
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My foot hurts my whole body hurts trying to run away from the pain of losing fifi was my everything my heart my soul my best friend always by my side sometimes i catch my breath it hurt so bad i never get over losing you my one true love in this world universe will never be another fifi
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You've been so incredibly strong @Catherine21, you've got this! Did the hospital give you anything to help with the pain or any advice? Now it's getting into spring, it might be a nice idea to think about the area you have in your garden in memory of fifi if there's some nice summery plants that could be added soon.
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Thankyou holly just rest but i cant i feel for people who suffer with pain how debilating it is seems my whole body hurts but strange enough every few months i will get a rash on neck back or stomach then my joints ache had tests all clear yes true few tulips come through look so nice i know noting of plants but i have to say looks good i never get over losing fifi
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Aww that's not great. Hopefully it'll pass, as will the stress and anxiety. We've had a few tulips too, just after the daffodils. It's definitely beginning to get more colourful in the garden. I'm pleased yours is looking good. ๐
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