My ex girlfriend for 15 years and dad of 2 boys and a step son we split

martin1989
martin1989 Community Member Posts: 2 Listener
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in in November my 15 year relationship and in November I had a feeling that something was going on with a never man in plan site like every fing was normal she got me sent to prison because just on remand for a month ended up getting 12 month suspended sentence aanand a 5 year restaging order because I told the truth from the start and yet nobody listened to my side the truth but yet wewel a was on remand she stole my pip disability out bank she still claiming cears Alounse for ne I got out of jail in January been hell sins not the police or cort jugg she had made everyone family friends nabers she used my mental health condition and made me look the crazy one I owned up to putting a tracker on car for 6 days she sed to me and kids tththathatthats wher she was going straight lied to kids and me 10 mins be for she set off as not yet clicking I put ttwo new tiyers on her car and made short it was safe to travel a long way but she was fine then as she was gowing to see her dieing unkel at one side of the country and she was seeing a man at the other side of the country so ye I made a mistake caching her out in the end but as a man i ownd up neither been to prison in 37 years until she did this lost everything house kids my XL bull the police tuck her the same time as me and on my release day they sadly put her to sleep dint even give me the chance to go collect he so ye this is what a good dad a and loyal person gets treated like **** women only need to say u hav done something that they fink what will effect you life in the long run and even a text to say hi to my 2 sons a go back to prison she played my oldest son to just briefly mention she would pay my pip money back and a police officer come and see that he been to see her and she has told ma son to mention it which he did rothley did but a was bizley chasing my 4 years old about a wasent lisining propley so the copper drops the cace agenst her so she had me over agen sly

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  • martin1989
    martin1989 Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

    how wood peapol go about approaching this 1 she got me by the balls for 6 years and ime not bothered about her I been a good dad every day a was ther morning till knight locking after my kids and ye she new a was struggling with my mental health but used to heher advantage the signs was the not cuddle not taking not even bed its it's like give me the cold shoulder a new a cut even cuddle her mmamadmade me cry at side of her a was ther every single day helping her disabildisabled dad and mum not a problem every day a helelpelpt evryday ggogot her and kids through the hard and sad time when her parents past then sadly my grandmother past just after them and I didn't go the her funeral because I put them as my family therst and a cudent get a fanks just screwd over even i tried to cuddle her she didn't want to no cudel in bed just new then then she told the police in interviews that she want to split up I told the they was stupid she sed nothing like that to me its it's a first time I have heard that so the police told me that it **** and all she did for months nothing just sat in her corner on her phone not giving a **** aabout kids fighting and when I slept in and stopped them I got pretend to get kicks out so ALL U SINGING DADS STAY STRONG AND DONT RISE TO THEM ALL IT IS IS AMMO FOR THEM TO SCREW U

  • Yani09
    Yani09 Community Member Posts: 97 Empowering

    Relationships can bring out the best of us.. and also the not so best.


    After, everything that has come to pass for you, let us hope you can find some normality and inner calm.


    In time hopefully you can rebuild and move on with being a Dad.


    Best wishes.

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,516 Online Community Team

    Hi @martin1989 it sounds like you've been through some tough times. Do you have people close that you can talk to when things are difficult? I agree with @Yani09 in what they've said. Hopefully now you're able to move forward and focus on rebuilding and moving forward.

  • flour
    flour Community Member Posts: 134 Empowering

    Hi @martin1989

    Welcome to the forum!

    I found your post a bit tricky to follow. Are you currently getting Universal Credit? If you are not then you should really speak to a benefits expert about this. You can call Citizens Advice Help to Claim Helpline from 8am to 6pm, Monday to Friday: 0800 144 8 444

    They can run through your circumstances and tell you what you can get.

    If you are already on Universal Credit you should contact your local office directly using this website to find their details

    https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/contact-us/nearby/

    I hope this helps?

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