looking for support and social engagement to gain more network support for Autism and ADHD

Hello @anyaikeojo and welcome to the community. Good to have you here.
I know we have many members who know a lot about autism and ADHD, so I'm sure you'll get some very useful responses from them. It would be worthwhile for you to have a look through the links (in white on a purple background, lower down the page) and try any that look interesting to you. This is the link to the Autism Spectrum Disorders forum, and might be a good place to start:
https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/learning-disabilities-and-autism
Know that you are in a safe space here and that you are among friends. Don't be shy about telling us about yourself or about asking any questions.
Looking forward to getting to know you,
Warmest best wishes,
Richard