I dont seem be good at keeping friends

Georgiaj36
Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
edited February 2018 in Relationships
I suffer from CRPS triggered by a damaged kneecap in 2006 amd also breaking my foot and ankle in two places over a year ago...I also suffer from several mental health conditions which have always been a constant battle on a daily basis and i dont seem be good at keeping friends due to this as they always judge me differently...
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  • Sam_Alumni
    Sam_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,602 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36
    Welcome to the community, I am sorry to hear about your struggles. This is a really friendly place so I hope you enjoy it here.
  • JennysDad
    JennysDad Online Community Member Posts: 2,290 Championing
    Hello @Georgiaj36, and welcome to the community. I'm sorry to hear about your issues, but glad to be able to welcome you here.
    A key phrase in your message is about 'being  judging you differently'. Well, we're all different here :smile: and no-one is going to judge you.
    Here you are safe and among friends, so don't be shy of telling us about yourself or of asking any questions. The better we get to know you, the more easily we may find ways of helping and supporting you.
    Looking forward to having you as a friend,
    Warmest best wishes,
    Richard
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36

    A very very big welcome to you this evening.

    Yes I have also got “CRPS” self diagnosed. All of the medics would only  “skirt” around things!!!!!!

    Please please let me know if I can help/support you in anyway ????
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51
    My physiotherapist diagnosed my CRPS and i have been having ongoing problems with this for over a year now and due to have an MRi Scan to assess whether i will need surgery to repair damaged nerves and tendons in foot and ankle. I was informed by my physio that i can put a PIP claim in due to the ongoing problems and the issues i have with walking etc and also claim for my mental health issues but i dont know where to start with the forms as i previously was on PIP but they disallowed it me over a year ago saying i was fit for work although my foot and ankle were in casts and i was on crutches so they bypassed my condition....so any help would be great 
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36

    That’s Great!!!!!!

    Yes I’m very happy in helping you in anyway!!! 

    We need to do this this through our own profile pages if that is ok????

    Don’t worry as I will walk you through it all of the way.

    Please please let me know how you feel  ??????

    Please please don’t worry you will be fine !!!!!!    

    Many thanks.
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51
    That would be great any help is much appreciated 
    Thanks
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36

    Briliant I will get the ball rolling if that is ok???

    Shall we start with your pip forms????

    Do you have any “dead lines” for us?????

    I will set up my profile for you if that is ok???? 
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51
    Thats fine i receiving the how my disability affects me forms anyday now so i just need to fill them in and send them back as soon as i can really
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36

    That’s fine please please let me know as soon as you get them & we can have a look if that’s ok????

    They always say “2 heads are better than 1”

    Have a nice weekend & please let me know when you are ready ????

    I’m on most days so I will be able to get back to you “ASAP”
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51..
    I received PIP forms and need to send them back ASAP but not sure what to put...As the questions seem more harder to answer than 2 years ago..
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi

    Ok no problem probs, shall we go through them one at a time.

    Please please let me know if I can help ???


  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51
    Yes please as i am unsure what to put incase they think i over exagerrating...
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    H@Georgia36

    Tharts fine don’t worry we can look at them one at a time once you are ready if that’s ok????

  • Tracy1965
    Tracy1965 Online Community Member Posts: 22 Connected
    Hi  H@Georgia36

    i know how you feel not having friends I feel exactly same way and filling in forms like pip normally takes me about a week to complete I can only tackle a bit each day I would really like to be your friend if that is ok with you 

    Tracy 
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @Tracy1965
    I would really like that.
    Thankyou x
  • Tracy1965
    Tracy1965 Online Community Member Posts: 22 Connected
    Your very welcome it will be lovely for me also to have a friend 

    thank you 
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    No worries huni.... 
  • Georgiaj36
    Georgiaj36 Online Community Member Posts: 20 Connected
    Hi @steve51
    Tomorrow morning would be good as want to try and get them sent off tomorrow.
  • Tracy1965
    Tracy1965 Online Community Member Posts: 22 Connected
    Good luck with your forms Georgia hope everything goes well for you 
  • steve51
    steve51 Online Community Member Posts: 7,121 Championing
    Hi @Georgiaj36

    That sounds great to me, please please let me know when you will be ready to start?????

    Thanks.