Hi, my name is Val

Hello Val @vandlmeakin and a very warm welcome to you. Glad to have you with us.
You have found a safe place here, Val, among friends who will be glad to help in any way that they can. When you feel able, could you tell us a little more about your situation and how you are affected by your husband's condition? The better we get to know you, the more easily we may find ways to help you.
Very warmest best wishes to you,
Here and listening,
Richard