My Hat!

Hi @bevt2017 sorry to hear what you are going through. The only advice I have is one that you have probably tried and that is to talk to your husband. Explain how you feel and it helps you cope and allow you to go out with him.

Please don't take this the wrong way, but in a way I can understand how he feels. He has a beautiful wife he loves and is proud of. He probably doesn't like that you need to feel the need to 'hide' when you are out with him, and possibly feels that he is talking to a hat a lot of the time rather than his wife.

It can be difficult to see someone you love start hiding from the world and while it is understandable that you want to put a barrier between you and the world to cope it can also act as a barrier between those you love and like. I am not saying that you are wrong, for the time being at least this is right for you and I can understand you feeling a sensitive about it, but it does seem to me that you both need to understand the other person's perspective and a little patience with one another.

I hope you can both find some resolution that doesn't involve you cutting yourself off from the rest of the world,