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We have two children, a boy who is 12 years old he was dignoised when he was in recption at his primary school with dysprixa and he has also been dignosied with global development delay and on the border of add, and was affected with sodium valproate when he was little as I had to take it as I have got epilspy and had it since I was born. My sons effects from sodium valproate are in the the faceial fetures.
My daughter suffers from the side affects from sodium valproate which make she.