Hi my name's Kelley and I'm here to ask for some help on my pip reassessment thanks guys x

Hello @kelley1234   Thank you for reply.  No you not rude never imagined ever you are.

Good to hear about the diary and the notes. Give you reassurance, be calming and give you a lot of confidence.

Wish you well for a successful outcome.

Please take care.

@thespiceman

Hello @kelley1234   Please thank you for contacting me. Much appreciated.

Hope you are taking it easy. Relaxing music and keeping warm.

I am very proud of you as a community member well done to you. You have done amazing.

I know have the next one. You be fantastic and think positive thoughts.

Wishing you the best always. Sending prayers tonight for a successful positive outcome.

Please if you do not mind keep in touch let me know how you get on.

Thinking of you.  In my heart.

Your friend.

@thespiceman

Hello @kelley1234   Good morning  to you and please hope you have a great assessment and think positive thoughts.

Please can I ask do you have some one to go with you. I do understand about being nervous on edge and stressed.

Put the Radio on have this on right now Classic FM nice relaxing soothing music to start the day.

Not high brow or snobby just lovely relaxing.

Have a good breakfast know maybe not feel like eating but if you can some thing to settle the stomach. The anxiety some Eggs scrambled on a toasted muffin .

Or Porridge with Milk and touch of water. Add an Apple and some Cinnamon or mix of Frozen Fruit and Apple.

Anything you feel you can eat. Honey and toast some fruit does help to relax be calming.

Boots energy levels.

Have a pamper start to the day you know you ladies like one.  Just a suggestion a warm bath or shower . Use my self some muscle bath foam. Scented and stimulating .

Thought I would share and care.

Make sure your calm and be confident. Please do not worry. I am here when you need to talk or when you return.

Always after please may I suggest have a treat do something you enjoy.

In my case if the assessment centre near to a shop buy a food treat or a CD .

Just a thought.  Your doing amazing and I am proud of every thing your dealing with.

Please have a good one your in my thoughts. Think confident sending lots of prayers and best wishes.

Your friend.

@thespiceman

Hello @kelley1234   Sorry to hear this.  I am truly sorry you had a bad experience .

I do think my friend @poppy123456 has given you a lot of positivity and lot of excellent advice.

I know today was emotional, difficult and hard to deal with.

I would make a complaint. You could complain to your MP.  They do want to know what you are going through.

Please if I add you done amazing and should be proud of yourself what you have been through.

I know you are this moment felling anxious stressed and on edge.

I think if you can try not to think of today other wise you get upset.

If you start to worry get anxious be effected your mental health.

I am here to suggest might be worth speaking to your GP.  I usually do after any assessments.

They are there to help and give you support.

I had similar incidents myself . Just to reassure you. Give a lot of self esteem.  

Hurts makes you angry. Please try to relax and wait the outcome.  Please if I can add also am here if you wish to offload.

Either here or PM on the private messaging service if you wish to.

You have 25 posts. Done so will be able to talk to me. If you want to.  

Just a gent being caring, concern and being supportive.

Please what ever you are doing please take care of yourself.

Your friend.

@thespiceman

The only person that can advise whether surgery would benefit you is your Consultant and not the HCP at the face to face assessment. An adviser from DWP wouldn't be able to advise you on this because they mostly read from a screen.

Hello @kelley1234 I do understand this I am sorry it not pleasant to hear this.

Maybe if I can share if you do not mind. Being born with a disability have fingers missing, numerous operations from birth. Till mid teens.

I got told by an Assessor can open a door can work . Told me as I sat here this is I know about me.

Please if I can just add do you think you need to look at accessing support, guidance, advice with your issues. I know I mentioned some links maybe need to consider this.

I know the pain, heart ache the struggles but if you consider the choices getting help and support.

May mean getting someone in your corner to fight for you. Like floating support or anyone else similar.

Then I know you might have the solutions to deal with what you have.

It is a big step but think of this if it helps you to heal is that worth it, scary, frightening of course it is.

Tell me about it .  Have been there.

Please take care.

Keep safe and warm.

Your friend.

@thespiceman

Hello @kelley1234   Thank you for reply. How are you today I hope you feeling better and recovering slowly.

Please contact me anytime you wish to use the Private Messaging service.

Just click on the centre icon of your wall .  First one is notifications, second one messages.  Purple ones.

Put my user name . @thespiceman then that will come to me.

Pleasure to talk to you anytime. 

Please take care.

@thespiceman