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Ragesht
Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
edited June 2020 in Everyday life
Dear community, I have today got a lot of verbal abuse, including swearing by my wife, I am a MS sufferer, what can I do?
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  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    hello @Ragesht and im so very sorry to hear what you are dealing with, please stay online, i will get numbers that can help you. others here at scope will post soon im sure.
  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    hi again, the number for MANKIND IS 01823334244, please ring them if you feel in danger, the police are 999. are you able to contact any relatives/friends??
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    thank you 
  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    we are here for you  :)
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,730 Championing
    Ragesht  I’m so sorry to hear what you are going through, I hope the numbers Kath gave  you help, please reach out and get the help you deserve, no one needs to live getting abuse wether it’s physical  or mental abuse, I put up with that life for a lot of years, I’m out it now but left with the mental and some physical scars, I wish you the best and let us know how your getting on take care. 
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    thank you
  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    hi @Ragesht, how are things?
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    I have isolated myself hence at peace
  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    oh god bless you, please post online if you need any more help x
  • Chloe_Alumni
    Chloe_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 10,506 Championing
    That must have been awful @Ragesht! I'm so sorry, you certainly do not deserve that.

    Were you in public at the time?

    You can call 101 (non-emergency police) if you want to report the incident. 
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    No, I am shielding, hence at home.
  • Chloe_Alumni
    Chloe_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 10,506 Championing
    Sorry @Ragesht, I think I misread part of your comment. Is this abuse ongoing? I imagine shielding has made things even more stressful. 

    Here is a link to mankind which offers support and guidance. However, please do let us know how you get on and if there is anything else we can do to help. 
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    Thank you Chloe, I am a MS sufferer and she has divorced me and I accepted, all before lockdown, I then took her to court for a fair distribution of finance and that’s not taking place till September.
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,730 Championing
    Hi Ragesht How have you been the past couple days. 
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    Hi Lou, thanks for asking, the situation has calmed down.
    i have filed a police report.
    thank you.
  • pollyanna1052
    pollyanna1052 Online Community Member Posts: 2,015 Championing
    Hi, so sorry to hear of your trouble.

    I am pleased to read that things are calmer.

    I have MS too...had it 22 years. How long have you had MS?
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,730 Championing
    Oh I’m glad things have calmed down for you, also glad you filled a police report at least they have a note of what has been going on, take care and stay in touch ☺️
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    pollyanna, diagnosed 2006 but doctors feel I have had it much longer.
  • Ragesht
    Ragesht Online Community Member Posts: 44 Connected
    Lou, thanks a lot for your kind words.
  • katho31
    katho31 Posts: 692 Empowering
    hello @Ragesht, im very pleased things are calmer for you. you did the right thing reporting this to the police, we are here and anything/anytime we will help if we can, hope your managing your pain relief, the stress must be unbearable x keep safe, keep in touch also and you will come through this  :)

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