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Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
Good Evening all you lovely people how are you today ? 

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  • OxonladyOxonlady Member Posts: 393 Pioneering
    Hi @Ibelive2020, how are you?
    How did you get on with the counsellor?

    I'm still in pain, can't get on with anything... 
  • woodbinewoodbine Community Co-Production Group Posts: 4,118 Disability Gamechanger
    @Ibelive2020 evening, it's been a nice sunny day here cheered us up, how are you doing?
    "Putting a child into care, isn't caring for a child" (T.Rhattigan)
  • leeCalleeCal Member Posts: 3,514 Disability Gamechanger
    Weathers been good but I’ve had a very boring day today, still, they say boring is as boring does. 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Hi @oxonlady sorry too hear your in pain i am aswell had few tears today my session went ok thanks i was shaking and my anxiety was up she thinks i have social anxiety and claustiphobia however you spell it so going to ring doctor in morning i will have counselling once a week from now on which is a big step for me as for aslong as i can rémember i have refused to talk to a counseller but i am struggiling abit now keeping everything bottled up i do hope your well @woodbine i am getting thank you how are you?
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @woodbine that was meant to say i am getting there 🙃
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @leecal its better to be boring than nothing at all 🤣🤣
  • chiariedschiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 8,616 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Ibelive2020 - I'm sure taking that first step with counselling can't have been easy, but hope it does become easier for you. You've been through such a lot, & I'm hopeful that it will help.
    @Oxonlady - I'm sorry you're still in so much pain. Are your new painkillers not helping, or the side effects still bad?
    A lovely sunny day here today as well, tho I missed half of it. My kitchen sink isn't draining properly, so my son & I spent the morning under the sink! :)
  • OxonladyOxonlady Member Posts: 393 Pioneering
    Hi @Ibelive2020, well done for taking that first step. You'll gradually feel relieved to get things off your chest.
    Sometimes we bottle things up and it just gets too much. 
    Wishing you a peaceful night.

    Hi @chiarieds, I'm on strong pain killers but the pain is still very bad, I can barely move my right leg. There's definitely something wrong with the hip but I'm not seeing the specialist for another week yet. When you are in that much pain every hour feels like an eternity of pain. I'm just about staying sane...

    Have a good night. 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Thank you @chiarieds it was a very hard step for me thats why it has took me years but im going to take each day as it comes thank you for your support and kind words it really does mean alot to me i do hope that your well 
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @oxonlady thank you for your support means alot i do hope that your pain eases for you i do hope that you have a peaceful night 🙂
  • OxonladyOxonlady Member Posts: 393 Pioneering
    Thank you @Ibelive2020. I'm falling asleep already! 😴💤 Good night. 
  • chiariedschiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 8,616 Disability Gamechanger
    @Ibelive2020 - I can't say that 'you get over it,' nor that 'time heals,' but it's a very precious burden you will carry forever with you in your heart, & it is so precious as you know. I think that was is so very difficult for you is that your babies didn't survive. I had 3 miscarriages; 2 at 12 weeks, one at 14, & ended up quite ill in hospital with the last one. I thought I'd never have any children.
    When we lost our little one at 23 months old, my husband didn't want counselling, yet didn't want to talk about her again after 2 weeks. I think you always need to talk. My eldest daughter & I have both laughed & cried about her; perhaps that's what's helped us both in recent years. 37 years later, I think about my youngest daughter every day, but as I say, I carry her forever in my heart, as you will do your babies. Hugs to you, & I'm proud of you for taking that first step, xx

  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    @chiarieds i lost baby in 2016 at home in my bathroom it sas horrific then in 2019 my baby died inside of me as hé had edwards syndrome and all of hís ínsides was on hís out the day i went intő hospitál i had tó go alone it was awful i nearly gave birth tó my precious son on my béd in a ward where there was alsó 5 other women plus couple young girls waiting on abortions because they dos nőt want there babies i will never forget my babies and im so sorry for your losses húgs back xxxy
  • Ibelive2020Ibelive2020 Member Posts: 803 Pioneering
    Was horrific i mean daft phone xxx
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