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  • cupcake88
    cupcake88 Posts: 1,412 Trailblazing
    edited March 2022
    Hi every one I’m trying to focus on our wedding day that keeps me going (Removed by moderator, sensitive details removed)

    my nurse called me this morning 
    to see how iam and she’s arranging a appointment with my consultant so finally I get a meds review because this can’t carry on me feeling like this .
    X 
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,922 Championing
    Hi @cupcake88

    Thanks for your update. I am glad to hear you have the wedding day to focus on and that helps keep you going. Would you like to share any of your current wedding plans? I know some people feel joyful to talk about it and others would prefer to keep it private so it is your choice.

    If you would like to talk about it though, we'll happily listen! I am glad to hear your nurse called you this morning to check in on how you are feeling and arrange an appointment with your consultant. Good luck and if we can do anything to support you through this difficult time, please don't hesitate to reach out to us  :)
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    Hi @cupcake - so pleased you'll get that much needed meds review, so then you'll be able to focus even more on your wedding day. Hoping you're feeling a little better today. Much love & gentle hugs, xx
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing
    Hi cupcake 

    Im so glad your going to focus on the wedding.

    And great news the nurse is getting in touch with the consultant, this has been needed for a while.

    Stay strong ❤️
  • cupcake88
    cupcake88 Posts: 1,412 Trailblazing
    Hi Every one . I chose my dress last year it’s due to come into the shop soon I’m worried as i have put weight on and I’ll just cry if the zip doesn’t go up lol . 

    We have pretty much got every 
    thing part from a cake we don’t want a wedding cake as it’s just us and our little dog . My dress is very different . 

    I’m really ok at the moment bit anxious my partner is on lates this week so he won’t be home till like 12 ish . It won’t be long till he’s home . I have my therapy tomorrow and my injection it’s all In the same place at the community base xx
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    Hi @cupcake88 - your wedding dress will be fine; whatever you wear will be fine with your partner....he just wants you there. What a lovely intimate wedding you're planning; just the people that matter the most, & your little dog (who will need a treat).
    Please remember you can talk to us all here when you're feeling anxious, but it's good to read you are OK as you know your partner will be back soon.
    Your therapy will go well; I have every confidence with this, xx
  • cupcake88
    cupcake88 Posts: 1,412 Trailblazing
    Hi every one how are you all ? 
    My therapy went well this morning she was nice to talk too and then my injection went well a student nurse was there and she asked if she could give it too me she’s on 
    her 3 rd year so she’s nearly 
    qualified so I said yeh every one 
    has to learn at some point . 

    X
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing
    Hi cupcake 

    Im so glad your therapy went well for you. You will benefit greatly from it.
    Also glad you got your injection and everything went well with that to.

    So proud off you your fighting for a good life.

    Stay strong ❤️
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    Hi @cupcake88 - so pleased your therapy continues to go well. Good you let the student nurse do your injection; that was very kind of you. :)
  • Ross_Alumni
    Ross_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,611 Championing
    Glad to hear that things went well today @cupcake88, and good on you for letting the student nurse get some experience :) 
  • cupcake88
    cupcake88 Posts: 1,412 Trailblazing
    Hi every one yes the therapist is very nice but she askes a lot of questions but she’s very nice . 

    I saw the consultant walking past the door so I quickly said to him 
    can he hurry along my meds review . 

    I didn’t mind her getting some practice in she was really nice . 
    I have a lot of support I feel now just need a new nurse then I’ll be good to go . Because I’m always getting told off by her x 
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    it's a good beginning with the therapist @cupcake88 - & they need to ask questions to get to know you more, to find out how they can help.
    Did the consultant reply?
    Good the student nurse was nice, & you gave permission for her to 'practice' on you!
    Has there been any further talk in getting you a new nurse, as that certainly would be another positive step forward? Love  & hugs, my friend, xx
  • cupcake88
    cupcake88 Posts: 1,412 Trailblazing
    @chiarieds. hello my friend how are you ? It’s going to be about 2 weeks till my meds review which Is a let down but at least it’s happening . 

    The nurse that usually does it had to tell her where bouts roughly she needed some help but she was confident and quick .

    no news on the new nurse yet but it needs to happen soon because I don’t like her she’s not kind to me nor can she help me I just feel being left under her care could lead me back in hospital which is where I don’t want to end up . 

    Xxxxxx



  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    Hi @cupcake88 -  I'm not too bad, thank you. Sorry it's going to take 2 weeks to get a meds review, but, as you say, thankfully it's happening. Just so wish you could get a better nurse, but some progress has been made. You'll get there my friend, but sorry it's such a fight.
    More positives over all. My thoughts & prayers remain with you, & keep on fighting, xx

  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,922 Championing
    I just want to say how wonderful the support is on this thread. Thank you everyone. All your support is always acknowledged and really appreciated. Just please remember we are here for you all if anyone needs anything  :)
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing

    Hi @cupcake88 - How have you been keeping. It's a lovely, quite warm, sunny day here, & I'm hoping to start planting some seeds this afternoon in my greenhouse. Have you been able to get out a bit, or take your dog for a walk?

    I hope you're feeling a little better, & looking forward to your next therapy session. xx

  • Alex_Alumni
    Alex_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,538 Championing
    Hello @cupcake88 I hope it's sunny again today where you are, how are you doing?

    I've been catching up and it's so lovely to read that your therapy is going well, and that the therapist is nice to talk to.

    It sounds as though it's making a really positive difference :)
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing
    Hi @cupcake88

    Im just thinking about you and wondering how your doing.
    I really hope your doing ok.

    Hope your good ❤️
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,833 Championing
    Hi @cupcake - we haven't heard from you in a while. How are you keeping? Is your therapy helping? Hoping you are doing a little better, xx
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing
    Hi @chiarieds

    I was just thinking about her again earlier, I really hope she’s just taking a rest just now.

    Take care❤️

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