Kid refusing to go to school.

Tell him to stuck up for himself. I have the same issue all thro school. And I let them bully me. I did not say one thing to them. I feeled like I do I put more stress on my parents. I was in 4 the grade I ate soap out of the girl bathroom so I get sick and go home. If I have someone to talk to give advice how to deal or what to do.people alway say no fight in school but if kids like me and your son don't fight back. The to get to a point to shooting up school or suicide. I alway think that the grass is greener on the other side. So he need to talk to someone that understand him and what he going to. So if you need someone to talk to him I can. I not think people have physical fighting someone but don't take it let the kid fight back. I scare to get in trouble but my parents if I fight back. I have a14 year boy. He got suspend few time but how I deal with it. I tell at him the first two hours how the school call me . Then  next two hours I explained what he could do different and hear his side. The important part to hear what the child got to say. Really I can help a lot because not fighting back it cause my self esteem to be very low. I just got to a point that I do matter.it took 33 years old. If I just fight back I would be more farther then I am now. So i can give more inside what it like to be a kid that get bullying.