2 child benefit cap.
jamrumples
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Does anybody know if this is going to be changed? Any of the benefit caps? I think there has been voted on it before but can’t be sure. I just wondered if anybody had any inkling as to whether the government were going to scrap this and help choldrem in our country not go to bed Hungry.
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I’m not aware of any changes to this in the future.0
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Thank thanks poppy0
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To be honest I doubt that many in the country would want to see this cap removed. Do we really want to go back to the days of 'Benefit Street' with young girls producing more and more children simply because the more kids they have the more benefit money they will get plus have a better chance of getting housed by the council?jamrumples said:Does anybody know if this is going to be changed? Any of the benefit caps? I think there has been voted on it before but can’t be sure. I just wondered if anybody had any inkling as to whether the government were going to scrap this and help choldrem in our country not go to bed Hungry.
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I agree with the concept of the 2 child limit but agree there should be some instances where you get a little bit of extra help if you have more children (I know they have exceptions for some cases which I think is the right thing). Ultimately people would agree and disagree either way.0
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I think the cap should stay in place for a very simple reason; if you can`t afford children, don`t have them.There is a 5 year gap between our 2 sons for this very reason; we couldn`t afford to have a 2nd child until I had been promoted. We never had a 3rd for the same reason; even after promotion, a 3rd child would have been too expensive.0
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I have three children, all grown, in professional careers and paying quite a lot of tax. This country has an ageing population and we need to start planning for the future, so we can either have more children, have more immigration or perhaps both.Regardless of any decisions parents make or don’t make children shouldn’t go to bed hungry. We all have a duty as a country to support our most vulnerable, children included.1
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I think it’s a little harsh saying you shouldn’t have children if you can’t afford them. When is it a good time to have children?My daughter had her 2nd baby 3
weeks ago. Her first was born in March 2020. Both her and her partner work full time and claim no benefits. My daughter worked until 2 weeks before the baby was born.From October their earnings will be £1,200/month less because she will be claiming just SMP. Still no benefits entitlement. It will be a struggle but if they had waited until they were more financially stable with cost of living increased so much they may never have had my granddaughter.2 -
My third child was a lovely surprise, 11years after my second. I then found myself to be a single mum, no fault of my own, after 22 years of marriage. I worked three jobs, went to college and made sure that my children had a good education. The only benefit I got was child benefit and it was a massive help.All children are a blessing and should be treated as such. If we only had children that we “could afford” most of us wouldn’t have been born.4
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poppy123456 said:I think it’s a little harsh saying you shouldn’t have children if you can’t afford them. When is it a good time to have children?It`s not harsh at all poppy, it`s common sense (that`s a general statement, not criticising you). Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.I have to say, in my mind, there is a difference between "bit of a struggle" (your daughter) and not being able to afford them (my then wife and I). Had we had our 2nd child close to the first one, it wouldn`t have been a struggle, it would have been a choice between having food or not. We were that skint, which is why we waited.
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Controversial subject that Dan also be sexist
A man can have several children with different women but in most cases because it is the woman claiming the benefits or seperate household claims the man can have lots more than the 2 children cap
Eg my ex had 2 children with his first wife claimed benefits for whole time together never worked
Then had q child with me we didn't claim any benefits at the time we were together but now I claim for his son
He now has 2 more kids with his partner and she has 3 from prev relationship (my ex grandkids BTW) and they claim benefits neither of them having worked since my ex stopped working so he didn't have to pay mr any maintenance
So in effect he is getting more than the 2 children cap for his own children1 -
Cartini said:poppy123456 said:I think it’s a little harsh saying you shouldn’t have children if you can’t afford them. When is it a good time to have children?It`s not harsh at all poppy, it`s common sense (that`s a general statement, not criticising you). Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.I have to say, in my mind, there is a difference between "bit of a struggle" (your daughter) and not being able to afford them (my then wife and I). Had we had our 2nd child close to the first one, it wouldn`t have been a struggle, it would have been a choice between having food or not. We were that skint, which is why we waited.
I call it harsh, you call it common sense. We are both entitled to our opinions so lets just leave it at that.
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poppy123456 said:Cartini said:poppy123456 said:I think it’s a little harsh saying you shouldn’t have children if you can’t afford them. When is it a good time to have children?It`s not harsh at all poppy, it`s common sense (that`s a general statement, not criticising you). Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.I have to say, in my mind, there is a difference between "bit of a struggle" (your daughter) and not being able to afford them (my then wife and I). Had we had our 2nd child close to the first one, it wouldn`t have been a struggle, it would have been a choice between having food or not. We were that skint, which is why we waited.
I call it harsh, you call it common sense. We are both entitled to our opinions so lets just leave it at that.
We are indeed but, unfortunately, with your closing line you are saying I cannot voice my opinion
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That argument rather assumes that people have stable lives. People can make perfectly rational decisions based on their circumstances but then something changes (whether due to economics, pandemics, health etc) and then need support, It's the children that end up living in poverty. If nobody had children unless they had already secured enough money to support a child for the next 18 years then nobody would have any children.Cartini said:..Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.2 -
calcotti said:
That argument rather assumes that people have stable lives. People can make perfectly rational decisions based on their circumstances but then something changes (whether due to economics, pandemics, health etc) and then need support, It's the children that end up living in poverty. If nobody had children unless they had already secured enough money to support a child for the next 18 years then nobody would have any children.Cartini said:..Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.At the point of deciding to have children, that is absolutely correct. No where have I stated about changing circumstances; circumstances do change, some for the best and some for the worst, that`s a given.
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But that’s why the two child limit makes no sense. Your argument appeared to be that the cap makes sense because it stops people being feckless, my argument is that people are in difficultly because they may have experienced a change.Cartini said:calcotti said:
That argument rather assumes that people have stable lives. People can make perfectly rational decisions based on their circumstances but then something changes (whether due to economics, pandemics, health etc) and then need support, It's the children that end up living in poverty. If nobody had children unless they had already secured enough money to support a child for the next 18 years then nobody would have any children.Cartini said:..Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.At the point of deciding to have children, that is absolutely correct. No where have I stated about changing circumstances; circumstances do change, some for the best and some for the worst, that`s a given.
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It isn't harsh to say that. We married in1965 when I was 22 and my wife was 21. We were both working and our first priority was to get our own place and furnish it This took until 1975. By 1980 when we had our twin daughters we had made it financially possible for my wife to not want to work but enjoy bringing up the children. My wife has never worked since that date.poppy123456 said:I think it’s a little harsh saying you shouldn’t have children if you can’t afford them. When is it a good time to have children?My daughter had her 2nd baby 3
weeks ago. Her first was born in March 2020. Both her and her partner work full time and claim no benefits. My daughter worked until 2 weeks before the baby was born.From October their earnings will be £1,200/month less because she will be claiming just SMP. Still no benefits entitlement. It will be a struggle but if they had waited until they were more financially stable with cost of living increased so much they may never have had my granddaughter.
We took responsibility for ourselves knowing that having children early would have meant no saving for our 1st home and my wife having to go back to work.
The best time to have children in my opinion is when you are settled financially and fully able to support them. For us that was when I was 37 and my wife 36.1 -
I would say that he is prolific and should have realised earlier on that unprotected sex does and can result in a baby! So in other words he was quite happy to 'spread his love' without a care in the world as to how he was going to support them - totally selfish and I now know where some of the taxes I paid ended up.janer1967 said:Controversial subject that Dan also be sexist
A man can have several children with different women but in most cases because it is the woman claiming the benefits or seperate household claims the man can have lots more than the 2 children cap
Eg my ex had 2 children with his first wife claimed benefits for whole time together never worked
Then had q child with me we didn't claim any benefits at the time we were together but now I claim for his son
He now has 2 more kids with his partner and she has 3 from prev relationship (my ex grandkids BTW) and they claim benefits neither of them having worked since my ex stopped working so he didn't have to pay mr any maintenance
So in effect he is getting more than the 2 children cap for his own children1 -
I`ve already explained that my comment is based on financial security at the point of deciding to have children. Circumstances do change, some for the good and some for the bad. For the latter, the parents will have to make difficult decisions.Biblioklept said:
What about those who could afford them and then life circumstances changed and now they've found themselves disabled / unable to work / made redundant / in a lower paid job?Cartini said:I think the cap should stay in place for a very simple reason; if you can`t afford children, don`t have them.There is a 5 year gap between our 2 sons for this very reason; we couldn`t afford to have a 2nd child until I had been promoted. We never had a 3rd for the same reason; even after promotion, a 3rd child would have been too expensive.
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I`m not disputing the point you made; I`m saying prospective, or existing, parents should be financially comfortable at the point of deciding to have, or add to, a family. At that point, people can only speculate about the future.calcotti said:
But that’s why the two child limit makes no sense. Your argument appeared to be that the cap makes sense because it stops people being feckless, my argument is that people are in difficultly because they may have experienced a change.Cartini said:calcotti said:
That argument rather assumes that people have stable lives. People can make perfectly rational decisions based on their circumstances but then something changes (whether due to economics, pandemics, health etc) and then need support, It's the children that end up living in poverty. If nobody had children unless they had already secured enough money to support a child for the next 18 years then nobody would have any children.Cartini said:..Having children when you can`t afford them means they will most likely go to bed hungry. A good time to have them is when you know you can dress & feed them and give them a secure life.At the point of deciding to have children, that is absolutely correct. No where have I stated about changing circumstances; circumstances do change, some for the best and some for the worst, that`s a given.
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