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Thanks for sharing your story @MrsTear I'm sorry that everything is still so up in the air for you right now. Hopefully our members can share their thoughts on what must have been a frightening time for you.
Are you still in hospital now, or do you have a hospital bed at home? And how are your children doing?
It's lovely to hear you've got friends who you can rely on to support you, that really makes a difference
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@Alex_Scope Hi
Thankfully I am home now with a hospital bed. Children are amazingly resourceful. My teens have been so helpful around the house and they have helped the younger ones. My 10-year-old has gone into nurse mode she wants to help me with everything the 8 years old is finding it hard that I'm not taking her to school or the park we are not walking the dog together. I wish I could find some help from someone to make me more mobile...0 -
Thanks for explaining so quickly @MrsTear children can be surprisingly resourceful, and I'm so pleased to hear that they are supporting each other, as well as you
Do you have a trusted support network around you to help manage looking after your children?
Dealing with such a big change can be very difficult for everyone involved, and it can be easy to perhaps feel guilty about what you can't do right now, but remember you're not to blame.
I'm certainly no expert, and would always advise talking to your GP or other medical specialists, but it may well take a lot of time before you're able to more mobile.
Have you been able to consult with an occupational therapist about aids and adaptions for your home?1 -
@Alex_Scope
I have amazing friends and they are fantastic support for us all. They even did a rota when I was in the hospital. To make sure the family had a hot cooked meal every evening.
It is hard not to feel bad when they don't 100℅ understand. I'm sure we will get there it has only been 2 weeks.
There is no hope at all for me to walk so that is hurtful. But yes my OT has helped with grip rails and bath and bed. We had to take out a loan for the stair lift.
Thank you Alex for you time to talk it's been nice x2 -
No problem at all @MrsTear it's lovely to hear how things are going, even if they are challenging and a bit of battle!
I'm glad you've got that OT support too, it makes a big difference when that support is there for us.
You definitely sound like you are all more than capable of adapting to these changes, especially given time, but of course it does still impact on everyone's mental health, so do speak to someone you trust if you are struggling.
Let us know how things are going as and when, and take care
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I was wondering if mrs tears is still on here i really need help you sound like your further along in your disabilty than myself.
I need to know if you had surgery?
Was you put into a wheelchair.
I need to know for my own disabilty reading what you put im living that currently unable to move crying when moving small tiny bit i really need your help. If had the surgery did it help or make it worse.
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Hi @sammigrafton, unfortunately they haven't been on the community since 2023. Have you spoken to your dr about your pain?
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Yes ive spoke to dr about the pain but nothing, its unbearable somedays. Ive researched it so much and drs have stated its because i had the epidural and spinal blocks during labor
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@MrsTear please get in touch, i would love to hear your news good or bad
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