Dating

Darce21
Darce21 Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
Hi everyone I’m 21 years old and have mild cerebral palsy, I’d like to get myself out there and hope it meet someone, I was just wondering if anyone knows of dating apps or any local events that are good for meeting disabled young adults? 
Thank you! 

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  • Leo_Aces
    Leo_Aces Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 104 Empowering
    Hey @Darce21, how are you today? Thanks for sharing 😁
    I’m wondering how you may like to meet somebody? What kind of activities do you enjoy?
    There are quite a few apps and sites out there. Have you looked or tried any yet?
    Sorry for all the questions! If you would like some dating app/sites recommendations, I’m happy to help 
  • Darce21
    Darce21 Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    Hey @Leo_Aces
    I’m good thanks how are you? 
    Thanks for getting back to me! 
    I don’t mind how I meet someone,
    weather it’s online or not, I’ve tried tinder and badoo, had no
    luck. 
    any recommendations would be helpful thank you! 

  • Leo_Aces
    Leo_Aces Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 104 Empowering
    Hey @Darce21, I’m good thanks.
    Cool, I definitely think finding activities and communities either online or in person, is a good way to start meeting like minded people,

    Regarding sites and apps, 
    Taimi- it says that it’s mainly for the LGBTQIA+ community but also users seem quite open minded around Disability https://taimi.com/

    Facebook Dating is now growing in popularity and there’s the option to make friends too

    I’ve found Tinder and Match can be a little hit and miss 
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,921 Championing
    Thank you for your kindness @hotstuff. We hope you are having a nice weekend too  :)
  • dylan89
    dylan89 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Connected
    I’m looking for a dating agency for people with disabilities in wales as I have learning and I have used tinder and badoo before just full of scammers on there so I prefer not to use any dating apps I rather use dating agencies which is safer I’ve been single for to long about time I find someone now 
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,863 Championing
    Have you enquired if any of your local community clubs having date nights @dylan89
  • dylan89
    dylan89 Online Community Member Posts: 26 Connected
    @Hannah_scope I have there’s nothing locally or nearby at the moment 
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,921 Championing
    Oh no @dylan89 - hopefully soon  :( Eventbrite is, generally, a good place to see what is happening in your local area too  :)
  • Daniella223
    Daniella223 Online Community Member Posts: 1 Listener

    Hey @ds8111558 here I’m looking for a dating agency for people with disabilities in wales as I have learning and I have used tinder and badoo before just full of scammers on there so I prefer not to use any dating apps I rather use dating agencies which is safer I’ve been single for to long about time I find someone now

  • SheffieldMan1976
    SheffieldMan1976 Posts: 751 Connected

    Try http://www.hft.org.uk/luv2meetu%2C It's a disability focused dating site, mainly for neurodiverse adults, remember that program that was on Channel 4 a few years back, The Undateables? They made it.

  • pooleemily29
    pooleemily29 Online Community Member Posts: 223 Empowering

    @Darce21 hi @Darce21 im Emily and I have mild cerebral palsy too so I understand how hard the dating game is in general. Have you tried an app called datability its a dating app for people wirh disabilities like ourselves ive been there a few times myself created a profile and everything and then end up deleting my profile because self doubt starts to creep in. You can download datability from Google app store. Im happy to talk farther if youd like to talk to someone 🙂 good luck with the search! @pooleemily29

  • Lucy_Scope
    Lucy_Scope Posts: 193 Cerebral Palsy Network

    Hi@Darce21,

    I have mild CP too. I met my long-term boyfriend on Hinge.

    Dating is difficult, but it is possible to meet someone. Take it at your own pace. Be friendly, and show your personality.

    I know other people with CP who have met their partners on online dating sites.

    Good luck.

    Lucy