Would you tell people about your disability?

I think it depends on the circumstances for me. I have what would be considered to be invisible disabilities, and have encountered some upsetting attitudes in the past which make me a bit wary of mentioning it in certain situations. But that doesn't mean telling people isn't a good thing sometimes!

It's true that some people don't understand or can misinterpret what having a disability means. That can lead to them unintentionally saying hurtful things or acting in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable, so I often feel the need to protect myself from that if I don't have the energy to correct them.

On the other hand, many people are lovely and make a real effort to understand. If you do tell people, it can help them anticipate your needs as well as how best to communicate or interact with you.

I think there are pros and cons to sharing, but often it is better to let people know. You can always choose how much or how little detail you want to give too

It's a good question @stickman, always interesting to hear what people think on these kinds of things!

That sounds really difficult @Stickman. I find it hard when people jump to conclusions about me too. As you say, it can be really isolating and lonely. 

I can understand why you stay quiet @Ada when you've had so many horrible experiences and negative reactions in the past. I'm really glad our community can be there for you