I never bothered the 1 player and moved on, so why does he message me from multiple sites?
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Splatmate24
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I'm not bother anymore by one guy that is a player but now has been messing up on my online social media account is twice from facebook from different account and 3 or more times from online dating apps/sites . One players that did send a message to me was you are busy I couldn't remember the full message. I didn't reply and kept blocking one player . I'm been messaging a new guy from Facebook dating and I only want to take slow and get to know each first and this guy is might not be a player. I'm not even bothered about one player and I moved on so now why is he messaging me from online dating sites?
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That sounds annoying @Splatmate24. Some people just don't understand that no means no and will keep trying, that might be what's happened with him. I think you're doing the right thing by blocking him.
Perhaps it's best to just ignore him if he tries to message you on different sites, and hopefully he will give up trying to contact you. But if you feel unsafe at any point, if he's messaging you far too much, or saying things that make you feel uncomfortable, make sure you tell someone you trust about it.
I hope it goes well with the new guy, taking it slow sounds like the right thing to doRosie (she/her)
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I was on a dating site. I got a message from this guy, I gave him my discord to contact me, so he did, but then nothing happened. A days/a week (?) went by and he messages me again, so I give him my discord again (not realising), I told him that he just messed me about last time, so he said he thought I looked suspicious! lol
He still keeps viewing my profile though, I guess some people are just desperate. -
@Rosie_Scope yep i also has noticed when i do blocked him on social media sites like facebook and did message me on 3 different accounts i did delete two and did blocked him . when i did looked few my block list on one dating apps and not be there and yep i also has swipe left when i do see him and do blocked him again ,never bother to messuage me after we did metup and did stopped messaging but when i did stopped caring and didn't even bother to messaging him . found some more . i'm okay now and been messaging a new guy .
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@Autism_at_40 I did metup with one player but after the meetup he did stopped texting when i did liked but after i starred to move on and become and now he does turn me off and i'm not attractive to him anymore . i did stopped messaging and did kept blocking him and not bother to reply to him . each times he did sent a message through facebook, through out online dating apps . i also did checked one dating apps blocked list and he not on there
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Did you report the person making different accounts to message you? Many of these platforms frown heavily at that, so I would recommend if you can to report them. It at least gets them off the platform!They/Them, however they are no wrong pronouns with me so whatever you feel most comfortable with
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@Jimm_Scope nope i didn't report any making different accounts but did delete some of my accounts on facebook .when i did report users before they never been off the social media website and has stay on the platform and i only did once's with online dating but didn't take the person off the platform . is not the new person that i been messaging with . is one of player .
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