Living with my partner

beadles93
beadles93 Online Community Member Posts: 42 Connected
edited August 2024 in Relationships

Now me and partner are living together we are finding it very hard to get couples time with 2 carers in house. We are alone in bedroom at night but that when we can move the least. One of my carers used to put us in bed together then move one us after. She left and the others have refused. Any suggestions welcome

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  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Hey @beadles93 that's a tough one! Would it be possible to discuss this with the carers or their higher ups? It seems a bit unfair that they wont give you any alone time.

  • sunshinebear
    sunshinebear Online Community Member Posts: 4 Listener

    wow I’m so sorry to hear that your needs are not being met as a couple definitely do as recommended and speak to a social worker about the impact it’s having on your intimacy

  • dkb123
    dkb123 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 169 Empowering

    Have you tried direct payments and employing the P/As you want, and are more relaxed about this kind of thing

  • beadles93
    beadles93 Online Community Member Posts: 42 Connected

    @dkb123 I do employ P.A Through direct payments however my partner Is Through Care agency

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