Sad, bored and lonely

SunflowerValley
SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering
in Mental health and wellbeing

I am feeling so sad, I don't know how to stop feeling so sad.

I am feeling bored, I have nothing to do, nobody will do anything with me or come and see me.

I am feeling so lonely. My mum and dad are out often (which I don't mind, they need a break from looking after me and I want them to go out and do things), my family don't come and see me (which bothers me a lot), and my sister won't do anything with me (which bothers me the most, I love her so much but it feels like she doesn't love me. She probably does and she is just being a teenager but I just love doing things with her. I can't even talk to her otherwise she looks like I'm annoying her). I know my parents and my sister love me, but the rest of my family I barely see. Which hurts me because I love my family.

I spend my whole days just watching tv, but I find it hard to watch different things so I watch the same 5 tv shows all the time. They comfort me and bored me. My health and disability also get me down as well.

My life just feels empty and sad and lonely. I just want to stop feeling sad.

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  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 6,565 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/121453/sad-bored-and-lonely

    Oh sorry to hear this I have two dogs great great comfort and company have you any pets ? Also I'm the same I'm always in my room isolated but I'm joining a group run by mental health team called hope collage do all work groups meant to start September and one to one I bet I won't want to go lol but there is different groups I do a zoom group for body dismorphia find really helps talking to people who understand big hugs

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    I have a dog too, she is like my best friend. I only have 1 or two friends who I don't really see but I talk to one everyday and we might be doing more stuff together. My only good days are Mondays when I go out with my PA. That's good that get understand you. I've never met anybody like me so it is hard to find people who understands. Thank you, big hugs for you too 💜

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Don't be hard on yourself we're all unique oh give your furbabie big cuddles maybe look for groups online I do online as don't like face to face whats the programs you like watching I think personally the less friends I have the less stress two quality good friends is good do something you like mimes having a bath could have ten in a day and rearranging my room breating exercises god I used to hate when they said that in therapy but thier is some truth to it if you have a garden maybe sit in garden just to take away that lonely sad feeling amd remember it will pass xx

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    I love watching Pretty Little Liars, The Vampire Diaries, Jane the Virgin, The 5 Twilight Films and Shadow Hunters. I will do, she is the best dog. I love my friends. Only having a few friends is so much better than loads. I am currently loving reading. I'm currently reading Regretting You by Colleen Hoover, she is my favourite author. I also love going out with my best friend. I can't find any groups with people that have no use of their legs and only one use of their arm. It's a little hard. I'm hoping me, my mum, my dad and my sister are moving houses soon and hopefully that will give me something to do, I love organising and picking things to design rooms. The house will be mine in a few years anyway and they will move into an anix so I might get to design the house. xx

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Sounds great ! I love 90 day fiance all of them ! I do like horror films me too I love organising changing things around I never used to do gardening didn't want to be seen but last two years been loving it so much so when you feel sad remember all these you like and love ❤️ pls excuse spelling and no better love than our doggies as my dad says to me when I say I'm lonely he say your never alone you have fabulous fifi and pixie and this group scope amazing be kind to yourself relax and do something you enjoy xx

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    That's good. I hate horror films but yet love them films? I'm strange 🤣. Your dogs sound so cute. Mine is called Titch. Thank you xx

    💜

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Ah titch is it Jack Russell sounds like Jack Russell name mine chihuahua she's nearly 15 and I rescued a yorkie pixie 7 I talk sing everything to them the neighbours laugh saying they can hear me my daughter says poor fifi you torment her but she's very clever taught her to say hello and do tricks she's so intuned with me unbelievable how smart she is poor **** 15 years with me lol

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    Titch is a Yorkshire Terrier but she was the size of my mum's hand so because of how small she was we called her Titch. They sound adorable. Lol, I talk to Titch all the time. They are like your babies. 🤣💜

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 6,565 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/900441#Comment_900441

    Ooh hhhhh I love tiny yorkies love love so sweet I hope you have a restful xx

  • SunflowerValley
    SunflowerValley Online Community Member Posts: 347 Empowering

    I love them too, she isn't even a tea cup Yorkshire Terrier, she was just a tiny one. Thank you, hope you do too. 😊💜 xx

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