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Catherine21
Catherine21 Posts: 7,320 Championing

Being an empath a person who feels everything for everyone man animals nature i feel so overwelmed and cry so much how the world is the wars the suffering elderly kids single mums suffering if anyones the same how do they deal with this im finding as i get older its impacting so much on my mental health i feel like a sponge its draining

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  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,713 Championing

    Hi @Catherine21, what you've just said here reminds me a little bit of how my partner has spoken about her emotional dysregulation. She can struggle to stop her empathy and then regulate the emotions it makes her feel.

    I don't know if you have already had it discussed with you but if not have you considered speaking to your doctor, or local community mental healthcare team about emotional dysregulation?

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,320 Championing

    Yes had loads of Therapy its hard i feel everything my doctor referred for more therapy it comes to the point how much Therapy can i have its always looking for a miracle i try to fight my thoughts my mind its engrained in me i have a constant feeling of sadness that never goes and i feel so bad as suffering around the world how are you today

  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,713 Championing

    I am okay thank you @Catherine21. I was just curious if emotional dysregulation was something actually discussed. Sometimes therapy and other forms of treatment don't work without certain knowledge. Like having emotional dysregulation.

    I just thought I would bring it up, as the way you say you can feel sometimes did remind me of things my partner has said.

  • FeistyPigeon
    FeistyPigeon Online Community Member Posts: 327 Empowering

    I'll apologise in advance in case I don't really know what I'm talking about Catherine, so forgive me if I sound a bit clueless. I have strong empathy too but not to your extent where I feel overwhelmed by everything. Although I could have, if I dwelt on all the bad in the world, and sometimes I lie awake at night thinking of the poor animals going to slaughter and everything.

    But I suppose I shut it out to a large extent by trying to concentrate on good things, like the robin in my garden who comes to sing to me each day when I put the food out, or Sooty my adopted cat when he's wriggling and squirming at my feet, showing off. I suppose I rationalise shutting out the misery at the subconscious level, by telling myself that dwelling on too much suffering will be counter-productive. It's a lot better to do something positive, something good you can put into the world, rather than dwell too much on the misery, which can sap your energy and take away your ability to do anything positive.

    Hope that's some help…

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,320 Championing

    Your so right its draining i sit here for hours thinking and im not actually paying attention to my own life thankyou x

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,320 Championing

    Oh ok thankyou i will look that up now thankyou

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,320 Championing

    Oh yes i have had therapy for bpd managing emotions i cant remember anything i hope you enjoy your weekend thanks for everything you do