Was feeling extremely lonely

Rose29

Hi there everybody ,I have been feeling overwhelmingly lonely it’s part of my disability,I have loved ones coming over to spend night here,I just wanted to reach out & ask how everybody is doing ?

Oxonlady

Hi @Rose29, I hope someone has come to be with you, so that you are not so lonely.
I've not been doing so well the last couple of days. 
I've changed to a new Care Agency but I'm not happy. The Carers just want to do what is convenient for them. The Carer turned up for dinner at 5.30 pm, an hour early and by 9.30pm I was hungry again. I don't have access to my kitchen, as I can't walk at all. I'm going to tell Social Services today that I have to change agencies again... 
I don't have any family that could come across, so I have to cope by myself whether it's ill health, loneliness or anything else. I'm so glad you have loved ones around you, it's hard being totally alone. My only option is to go into a Care Home, which I would never do willingly. My independence is of paramount importance. 
I hope you have no trouble sleeping. Take care. 

durhamjaide2001

I'm good thanks I'm sorry that you are feeling lonely. 

SueHeath

Morning @Rose29 alls good so far with my day thanks, sorry to hear your on a low but really glad you got someone coming over are they with you now darling ?

Rose29

@Oxonlady hi my darling ,I’m so sorry to hear that agency worker has been like that,some of these agencies won’t even ask client for feedback but plz do speak about it and get it changed ,u deserve to be able to feel fulfilled with you day’s needs,it’s not good to go to bed with feeling of empty stomach when your meals should be done on times ,I did manage to sleep as I take medication for it keep us posted plz what happens with agency change luv x

Rose29

@durhamjaide2001 thank you hun x it gets overwhelming sometimes I know my loved ones are always there whenever I need them my friends are my family but sometimes one can’t help with the feeling of being a burden 

Rose29

@SueHeath hiya my gorgeous,yes they stayed until I woke up from medication sleep ,had good coffee and am fresh and sitting with my kitty in living room now,feeling much better. I hope this days goes good for us all

SueHeath

Good morning @Rose29 just popped by to say hello and ask how your feeling today.

Rose29

@SueHeath good morning hun ,a little better it was -5 this morning ,I had my birds in garden my beautiful old chickens which I feel bad that I can’t do much with them anymore so neighbours have gotten together seeked council permission and move the ladies in front yard so all young ones look after them,play with them feed them ,they’re allowed to come get feed and water from my house ,one of my neighbour this morning spoke to me over my ring cam asking if the cold water ok for chicken in such cold,bless his heart I told him they’ll be fine as they have had apple cider vinegar.haha 

SueHeath

Glad your feeling better darling and it sounds like you have a great community around you.
Don't forget you can always join in on any of the chats or games we do in the coffee lounge, if your fed up or just need a little distraction.

Oxonlady

Hi @Rose29, I hope you are well today. How lovely that your community has come together to look after your chickens. I hope you have someone to collect the eggs!
Please give your cat a hug from me. My beautiful cat Lancelot disappeared last October, while I was in hospital. My Carer was feeding him but he left two days before I was discharged. Of course I miss him very much. 
I'm looking forward to spring and warmer weather! I hope you are managing to keep warm! Take care. 

Rose29

@Oxonlady thank you hun xx yes my upstairs neighbour said in feb when girls start to lay she’ll collect the eggs for me,and I love my kitty her name is Yennefer,I’m sorry to hear about your boy disappearing it’s heartbreaking to loose your fur baby x my flat is very nicely insulated as it’s a accessible property so it’s not too big so gets warm easily .