Dating with a physical disability and health conditions

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  • paul45oprea
    paul45oprea Online Community Member Posts: 8 Contributor

    this is my diagnosis more than all the locations thing Good of glory that were made about you the city of God and the four living creatures or thrown to the ground and how they worshiped God is 63 Revelation we will see now if I just say this or if the word tells you Revelation 19 with 11 and I saw heaven destiny and behold a white horse and he who takes from the net was struck faithful and makes war and his eyes were like Flame and on his head many crown Oh brother for now yes because he and the word is the same his and his name but singular he knows only one name no other no others in the circle Which were slowly slowly in the horses they ate He had many crowns without test do you have the microphone brother what did you want to say here brother I wish you Hello, I'm 52 years old, I also have the problems that I told you there in the message. You don't know how I'm coping and I would like to know if I could be your friend.

  • myztogen
    myztogen Online Community Member Posts: 6 Connected

    Hi there. I am having dating problems also. I have used dating sites, however once a person finds out I only have one leg, I get ghosted. This has happened many times for it to be a one off. It blows my self esteem. One person, actually replied after i decided not to date this person, She said My God things must be bad, I cant even pull a one legged Man. I laughed this off at the start, however it really started to play on my mind. I feel so frustrated. People say there is more fish in the sea, so to speak. Well yes this is true, but these fish don't seem to want to swim with a broken ex Soldier. Believe it or not, I am a positive person, I always try to look on the positive side of things, but this gets me down

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Online Community Member Posts: 7,444 Championing
    edited October 28

    Dating apps seem to work for a few people, but I think the majority don't get anywhere and that includes myself as a young ish semi attractive woman.

    I even used a well known paid dating site recently, and found it worse than the free ones, which is saying something 😆

    I try online, I try in person, I seem to be largely invisible to men even after losing a significant amount of weight and changing my hair colour to something that suits me much better.

    I don't understand it nor do my friends and family 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Like you I'm generally a positive, optimistic person but a lifetime of failure with the opposite sex gets me down, really down.

    I hate being alone and having to cope with so much, alone always alone. I'm forced into living a life which doesn't meet my physical or emotional needs.

    It's extremely hard… I do all the things that are suggested I volunteer, I do hobby groups, social event groups, community classes, it still doesn't fill the gap left by a relationship nor do I meet anyone who is interested in me romantically.

    I don't even want to get married and have accepted children aren't possible, I'm just looking for a basic entry level relationship!