Mental health

Albus_Scope

Hey @Agnia I'm so sorry your mood is so low, but please never feel like you're a burden to anyone. Those that matter don't mind and those that mind don't matter. But I totally understand that words can really be hurtful.

If you're feeling that low, please please reach out to your doctor again or if it's an emergency, please call 111 to speak to someone. I hate to think you're not receiving any help.

I'll pop you an email in a bit, please be on the look out for it.

Bluebell21

Hi @Agnia I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this. We all care for you. Take care.

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/951766#Comment_951766

Pmdd is a severe form of pms two weeks out of the month swollen bloated severely depressed angry sad absolutely debilitating

durhamjaide2001

@Strawberry1 I hope you are feeling better today the sleep pillow spray should help as well.

@Agnia I am sorry to hear that you are struggling today Shout is another good resource for you if you don't want to speak on the phone.

@Bluebell21 how are you doing today?

https://giveusashout.org/get-help/how-shout-works/

Bluebell21

I am not too bad thanks @durhamjaide2001

durhamjaide2001

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/951831#Comment_951831

your so welcome I hope you get better soon

durhamjaide2001

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/951837#Comment_951837

that's good to hear

durhamjaide2001

your welcome

Bluebell21

Good evening everyone. I hope you are all keeping safe in the dreadful weather. Take care.

Thinking of you @Agnia keep fighting you will get there. Take care.

Bluebell21

Good night everyone. I hope you get some rest. Take care.

WhatThe

Agnia, keep asking for your medication to be reviewed if you think it's making you feel worse.

We do not cost the state much money! Most of the welfare bill goes to pensioners anyway so ignore the nonsense about sickness and disability benefits.

Mothers, I don't know why some say wicked things or have favourites. The things she said are simply not true and I'm sorry they haunt you like this.

durhamjaide2001

good morning everyone

Bluebell21

Good morning @Strawberry1 I hope your stomach is settling down and your back and leg are less painful today. Enjoy your Sunday dinner.

Good morning @Agnia I am so sorry your mother has cut you off and has said some dreadful things to you. When you were working did you help support your family in Poland financially? Does your mother just not accept that you are ill? Do you have any family or friends in the UK? Sorry to ask so many questions I am trying to understand your situation and see if I have any ideas that might help you. I hate to see you so continually upset and feeling you are a burden.

Good morning @Nightcity how are you doing? Does Pippa get any presents for Christmas?

Good morning @WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet or still working your way through other goodies? I think you need to treat yourself to another tub of something else.

Good morning @Catherine21 keep going and do not let your posts being checked put you off posting. We miss you.

Good morning @durhamjaide2001 Enjoy your day.

Take care of yourselves everyone.

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/952024#Comment_952024

Your such a kind person I appreciate your kindness

durhamjaide2001

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/952024#Comment_952024

thank you I have been wrapping Christmas presents

WhatThe

@WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet

Saving for a rainy day 😄

durhamjaide, wrapping presents now is a good idea. I plan to get my Xmas boxes down this week and at least get lights up - I'll start wrapping after that.

WhatThe

And you Agnia

WhatThe

🤗

Bluebell21

Good night @Agnia Unfortunately we can not compare the mother we have with anyone else's. Do you have any contact with the family you have in the UK? Could they help you at all?

Could you write a letter to your mother telling her everything you feel and how what she said to you has affected you. You do not have to send it but it might help you come to terms with it all once you have written it down. Keep going over what your mother said time and again is making you ill.

I am not suggesting this will be easy for you and I hope I have not upset you by saying this.

I care a great deal for you and hate to see you tearing yourself apart over this. It is something you cannot change. You have friends on the forum and I believe Scope admin were going to contact you to try and help.

Please take care of yourself. Big hug.

Bluebell21

Good night everyone. I hope you manage to have some rest. Take care of yourselves.