URGENT EHCP Advice needed
This is for my little boy who is 6 years old and is in year 1. He’s had an EHCP since preschool, but has never been able to access mainstream education. He did his own thing in Reception, and at the start of this school years, the situation escalated sharply.
The LA agreed to a specialist autism school, but 18 schools across three counties came back as ‘can’t meet need’. There was a single school that had a positive response, but it’s an hour drive, and with my sons severe sensory issues, he was car sick on the way there, and the way back. When looking around, my little boy retreated into himself and hid in one of the classrooms. He hated it and begged me not to send him there. I promised we wouldn’t.
I’m absolutely livid. My little boy has been treated like a prisoner for months now causing a decline in his mental and physical health. He’s stopped eating and is now below the 1st centile for weight. He’s refusing the milkshakes that the Dietitian has prescribed. He’s only 6! This shouldn’t be his life.
Please, does anyone know the law on this?
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Hi @Rin1472 - I'm sorry for what you're going through with your little boy, but am hoping you may get some helpful advice from IPSEA (Independent Provider of Special Education Advice) if you look around their website, e.g. https://www.ipsea.org.uk/Pages/Category/get-support They also have various helplines: https://www.ipsea.org.uk/Pages/Category/service-overview that may help you with the legal side of things.
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Hello @Rin1472. Thank you for reaching out to us. I always appreciate how much courage it can take to reach out, especially when you are finding things so difficult.
I can almost hear a feeling of ‘entrapment’ – finally getting a school that responds positively to meeting your son’s needs but is so far away and incompatibility with your son’s severe sensory issues.
One thing is really positive is you have continued to listen to your son and his needs, something which is so pivotal but so difficult when no one else is supporting you.
You can appeal the LA’s decision of the named school, particularly for highlighting why it is unsuitable for your son’s needs.
However, this is more difficult if you are not aware just yet of a school that would better suit his needs. When you mentioned the hour’s drive, I am assuming this was a car, but please let me know if I have assumed wrong.
Your son could also be eligible for taxis to support his sensory needs to school if I have assumed wrong and if this would be better for his sensory needs.
Sending you huge hugs and a listening ear above all else. Please don’t feel like you have to face this alone, even if you feel this is the case
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