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Hi, my name is JustGonnaRestHereAll!

JustGonnaRestHereAll Community member Posts: 1 Listener
Hello all, just want to say hello. Im Tom, 42. Married, Father of two awesome kids, work in the NHS. Don’t really have any hobbies because I’m so tired all the time! When not at work or doing housework I spend my time on my favourite sofa! Maybe my favourite sofa can be my hobby :)

Anyway, I have Ankylosing spondylitis, which is arthritis with a massive dose of chronic fatigue. I also have a few mental health issues in the mix. It’s a bit isolating and I’m having a bit of a re-evaluation of life and identity too since it’s clear my conditions aren’t going to let me bounce through life any longer in the direction I had planned. My bounces have overall got shorter over the past decade or two and I think I’m sort of rolling lazily through life in something like a small random circle at this point. 

Just looking for a place to rest and to figure it out. Hope you peeps will have me


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