Hi all, I'm 51yo married man, I suffered a stroke (bleed-an artery burst in my brain) five years ago, I'm doing ok but I have mobility problems as well as ptsd, anxiety etc.. slowly they are improving, I've never spoken on a forum about my life and my dissabilities before, I/we have an issue....
We live near a river it's been wonderful living here it really has helped my recovery, it's nice and peaceful (or was).. We had a knock on the door in March telling us that the Enviroment Agency is going to build a flood defence wall next to our (and all the homes along our Close) and this work will start in June, I explaind my situation and loud noises and the upset would not be good for me as I'm house bound and can't work etc... now our home has the access point right next to the river so they will be using this entrance to deliver, plant and meterials, personel and other equipment Mon-Fri ( possibly Sat) 8am-6pm for six months at least.
They ignored my request for some help at first, the work started two weeks ago the weather was very hot, I sleep on a hospital bed in my kitchen which is at ground level I have windows and doors that open on to a little patio which is lovley when the weather is nice as we have birds that come to our feeders and its next to the river, we had an excavator working not 6ft away from my windows for days on end pumping out noise and fumes from it's engines stright into the house as the windows were open, closed them and it was far too hot, we had work men shouting as they do etc.. my wife had to have a word as they were swearing very loudly.. we have work going on down the side of the house and round the back where my kitchen/bedroom is, the front of the house is now a drop off point for machines and equipment.
This has taken me over the edge when I'm stressed my muscles in my weakside go stiff making mobility really hard, anyway I asked them to stop as I cant cope with the fumes, noise stress etc, they sent me a text saying they would provide ear defenders, a fan and an air purifier. I was gob smacked !! I then asked them in a text to "explain to me how this would work"... anyway after they called me, I demanded they STOP all work as I'm really suffering and I went over the issues that I had already told them about in March, they came to see us 2 days later (after stopping the work near our home) and basically said, they will pay for us to move to temporarry home that is suitable for me/us they will pay for everything including the rent (as we rent) on our home by the river... but the stress of moving, trying to find a suitable home, then having to apply, credit checks, informing all the people we have accounts with, DWP, banks, council ... you know the list is never ending. We rent at the moment and the landlord might sell if it's empty, we can afford the rent here and it suits our needs we have had hand rails fitted etc meaning the temp house will need hand rails etc... the temp homes we have found suitable are double the rent, so if our landlord sells or relets we are stuck with double the rent £1500-£2000 rent a month instead of £750 our landlord has been wonderful and knows we cant afford much as I cant work anymore and has kept the rent low, we have lived here for 10 years.
So I fear when the building work has finished ( the Enviroment Agency will pay for 12 months rent and bills) but I dont want to be forced out of my home.. although I do realise the work is important. I feel they are rushing us out as they can't do the work..
Where do we/I stand today and in the future ?
I need a suitable bungalow with flat access with near the door parking, we have that here (all be it a house but I cope) .. It's all too much for me/us I struggle trying to sort it all out and my wife works full time as well as caring for me I feel awful for her as she copes as best she can.
Thank you