Forced to move due to Building work by the Enviroment Agency
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Possibly you may need to be realistic, and accept they cannot abandon flood defence because of you, so legally they will have done all that a court would consider reasonable. They offered 12 months costs of another place. That means you could use your existing financial resources to pay rent and standing charges for your existing rental home, while it is mainly left empty. That would be a help, anyway, because it means your wife, at least, can pop back and check on things, and you can keep most of your belongings there. And, keep that address for whatever mail you like.
You just need to get yourself out, not your stuff.
That gives you a far better option of rehousing yourself. As you say, getting a replacement disability suited rental place would be next to impossible. But getting a reasonable agreement for a year long hotel place would be much easier. Hotels, unlike most homes, are accessible. You could possibly just find a suitable modest hotel, and get the flood defence people to negotiate terms with them, since they would be the ones paying. And, since the hotel would be reassured that an official agency was paying.
Your meals in a hotel would at first sight seem to be an extra cost, but on the other hand you would not pay the heating, gas or electricity or water bills for a year, only the standing charges, so you would probably find a hotel year would overall save you money.
Looking at the glass half full side could be a help for you. There always are two sides to a coin. For example, if you find a suitable, quiet part of a suitable hotel you would have peace when you like, or company to some extent at any time you choose.
Your wife would quite possibly find it a pleasantly restful change to just deal with going to work, and spending time with you, but not needing to bother about housework and cooking for a year. In a hotel, everything is done. Daily cleaners, fresh sheets and towels all appear. So does the food you choose, cooked and placed at your table, then the dishes are cleared away and washed.
Your own personal laundry could be done at your existing house. Presumably if the flood barrier work is not done on Sundays, you could spend time back home then, maybe from Saturday afternoon to Monday morning?.1 -
Hi @ade117 welcome to the forum
Sorry to read about your situation and can see what a night mare it is for you.
I would suggest you speak to your landlord to see if they have any other properties you could use, whilst work is being done. It might be an option, also they be able to speak to the workers.
Also would you consider going into respite care if they paid the costs to give you a break from it all?
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newborn said:Possibly you may need to be realistic, and accept they cannot abandon flood defence because of you, so legally they will have done all that a court would consider reasonable. They offered 12 months costs of another place. That means you could use your existing financial resources to pay rent and standing charges for your existing rental home, while it is mainly left empty. That would be a help, anyway, because it means your wife, at least, can pop back and check on things, and you can keep most of your belongings there. And, keep that address for whatever mail you like.
You just need to get yourself out, not your stuff.
That gives you a far better option of rehousing yourself. As you say, getting a replacement disability suited rental place would be next to impossible. But getting a reasonable agreement for a year long hotel place would be much easier. Hotels, unlike most homes, are accessible. You could possibly just find a suitable modest hotel, and get the flood defence people to negotiate terms with them, since they would be the ones paying. And, since the hotel would be reassured that an official agency was paying.
Your meals in a hotel would at first sight seem to be an extra cost, but on the other hand you would not pay the heating, gas or electricity or water bills for a year, only the standing charges, so you would probably find a hotel year would overall save you money.
Looking at the glass half full side could be a help for you. There always are two sides to a coin. For example, if you find a suitable, quiet part of a suitable hotel you would have peace when you like, or company to some extent at any time you choose.
Your wife would quite possibly find it a pleasantly restful change to just deal with going to work, and spending time with you, but not needing to bother about housework and cooking for a year. In a hotel, everything is done. Daily cleaners, fresh sheets and towels all appear. So does the food you choose, cooked and placed at your table, then the dishes are cleared away and washed.
Your own personal laundry could be done at your existing house. Presumably if the flood barrier work is not done on Sundays, you could spend time back home then, maybe from Saturday afternoon to Monday morning?.Thank you this all makes total sense, i will look into these options, thank you for taking time to write all this, sometimes you need someone with a clear head unlike mine that's been through the wars.Many Thanks0 -
Sandy_123 said:Hi @ade117 welcome to the forum
Sorry to read about your situation and can see what a night mare it is for you.
I would suggest you speak to your landlord to see if they have any other properties you could use, whilst work is being done. It might be an option, also they be able to speak to the workers.
Also would you consider going into respite care if they paid the costs to give you a break from it all?
Hi Sandy, looking into all this, Thank you so much for the reply, Ade117
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@Ade117 Welcome to the community!
I'm so sorry about everything that is going on, it does seem that they are willing to negotiate and compensate so it's good to hear there is that line of communication open.
I echo what Sandy has said about speaking to your landlord, make sure they are in the loop and maybe they could help. I also agree with Newborn that although it may be stressful for a day or so, a hotel stay sounds like it could provide some rest for you.
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Or, thinking even more about the glass half full, you are lucky to get a flood barrier when millions need one just as much. Lucky to have a caring partner when millions have nobody who cares if they live or die, have no carer and no companion until they die, alone and unwanted . Lucky to have a private rented home when millions need one. You could buy yourself noise cancelling earphones and learn to live with the construction sounds, just as all your neighbours will.
Are you quite sure you need to move out?
It is understandable for all humans to resist all change. When it is forced on us, the only thing we can do is look for some good side to it. Being secure from flooding must be good. The change forced on you at any moment from being flooded out (if you survive drowning) would be worse than having the construction noise. You never know, even the change to seeing a lot of activity during the day might be something you (and the birds you enjoy watching) will steadily get accustomed to.0 -
Hello Ade
I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing with the ongoing construction of the flood defence wall near your home. I understand that the noise, fumes, and overall stress caused by the construction work is having an effect on your health. These circumstances are undoubtedly burdensome for anyone, even those in good health.
Although it may not provide much comfort to you, it is important to acknowledge that the flood defence work is necessary to protect your home from potential flooding. Without these measures in place, the consequences of a flood could be much more severe and would likely result in a longer displacement from your home.
Regarding the current situation, have you considered discussing with the environment agency and your landlord the possibility of erecting a temporary higher fence along the site access path. While it may not be aesthetically pleasing, it could help to mitigate some of the fumes and provide a small barrier from the construction activities.
Additionally, you might explore with them the option of installing a noise-defending acoustic barrier, similar to what a friend of mine did. She had one attached to her fence, which significantly reduced the noise from a busy A road with constant juggernaut lorries I was sceptical at first, but these barriers have proven to be effective and minimise noise.
Another suggestion could be to discuss the possibility of having triple-glazed windows fitted to the ones facing the construction site. This would help to reduce both noise and fumes entering your home. Again the final decision would rest with your landlord. Based on the information you provided, it appears that your landlord is quite flexible and understanding.
Furthermore, you might consider requesting a high-quality portable air conditioning unit. While they can be costly to run (around £15 per day), they can effectively improve the air quality indoors and provide some relief from the fumes. The environment agency may well help pay toward the running costs.
I understand that the list of suggestions I provided may seem extensive. However, if I were in your situation, I would consider these options as alternatives to having to uproot my home. It's important to explore different possibilities and find solutions that can help improve your living conditions now without having to relocate.
Whatever you and your wife decide to do, I hope everything turns out positively for both of you.
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