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Husband Being Treated Or Not Treated The Correct Way
We went back to our G.P. and he asked him a few questions which he couldn't completely answer so was referred to The Mental Health team as a possible case of 'Early Onset Dementia' he has so far had 3 cancelled appointments, our surgery has on 1 occasion sent the blood tests required to the wrong place, they then redid the tests and then was told they were more than 3 months old by the time he got his referral so they had to be done again which he did then his appointment was cancelled again because the person who did the tests had left. My husband went to work one morning in March and then came back home because he just couldn't function and has now since retired due to ill health and he has not changed even though at first they said it was extreme stress and anxiety, he has had no follow ups, no medication, no help of any kind from our surgery and I am fuming and am thinking of making a formal complaint but am frightened it causes his treatment to be even more delayed.
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Hello @francesanna
I am so sorry to hear your partner is going through such a tough time. And that, you are hitting the wall with the doctors and referrals. Has your GP practice got multiple doctors under the surgery? Could seeing another to try and push forward, help at all?
I'd also encourage you to reach out to Dementia UK. They have some great advice pages on their website, but I think their advisors would be able to best support you and your partner.Hannah - She / Her
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Hello Francesanna
I was sorry to read the difficulties you are facing with your husband's health and the unhelpfulness of your GP surgery. It is important to address this issue, and I suggest contacting the practice to request the direct email address of the surgery manager. In situations like these, it is often beneficial to bring the problem to the attention of the manager as a first step.
Given that your husband was initially diagnosed with stress and anxiety, which has now possibly progressed to "early onset dementia," it is crucial to consider all possibilities and eliminate any other potential causes for his behaviour. While writing the email to the manager, I don't mean to alarm you, but I recommend requesting that your husband's GP urgently refers him for a brain scan to rule out any other underlying factors.
Francesanna do not feel frightened to voice your concerns by making a complaint. Composing a polite and well-written email expressing your disappointment and concerns regarding the delays should be welcomed. It is likely that the GP surgery is unaware of the impact this lack of support is having on you and your husband. A well-managed GP practice should be receptive to your complaint and make every effort to reassure you during this challenging time.
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