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Will my mum lose her house ….???

Ali_lovesTheUK
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Hello everyone .
I’m desperate for some advice . Me and my partner want to get married next month . But I’m gravely concerned that cos I live in a council house with my mum who has cancer . That she may lose her council house if I give my notice of marriage to the register office . Also my partner rent he own flat by himself and when we married that where I would be living but my partner will still pay the rent . Can some please help and tell me where I may stand on all of this . Thanks all

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The question is who is named on the council tenancy for the council house you and your mum live in? it might not even be an issue if you have both lived their for the last 12 months, if in doubt ask CAB for advice.Seasons greetings to one and all 🎄🎅🏻🌲
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woodbine said:The question is who is named on the council tenancy for the council house you and your mum live in? it might not even be an issue if you have both lived their for the last 12 months, if in doubt ask CAB for advice.Mental Health Matters.
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Your mum will not lose her house if you moved out. Her name is on the tenancy agreement and not yours.
However, if she’s renting from social housing and you moving out means there will be a spare bedroom then she maybe affected by the bedroom tax, if she’s claiming for help with any rent.When you move in with your partner if you or your partner are claiming any benefits then these maybe affected. It will depend on your joint circumstances and which benefits (if any) either of you are claiming.I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help. -
poppy123456 said:Your mum will not lose her house if you moved out. Her name is on the tenancy agreement and not yours.
However, if she’s renting from social housing and you moving out means there will be a spare bedroom then she maybe affected by the bedroom tax, if she’s claiming for help with any rent.When you move in with your partner if you or your partner are claiming any benefits then these maybe affected. It will depend on your joint circumstances and which benefits (if any) either of you are claiming.Mental Health Matters. -
Her rent be paid in with her Universal Credit known as housing element. She will only be claiming housing benefit if she's living in either supported or temporary housing.You moving out will not mean she's no longer entitled to any help with the rent. Does she live in social housing or privately rented?I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help.
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poppy123456 said:Her rent be paid in with her Universal Credit known as housing element. She will only be claiming housing benefit if she's living in either supported or temporary housing.You moving out will not mean she's no longer entitled to any help with the rent. Does she live in social housing or privately rented?Mental Health Matters.
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That would be known as social housing. This means if you move out and she has a spare bedroom she'll be affected by the bedroom tax, which will reduce her housing element by 14% per week. https://england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/benefits/how_to_deal_with_the_bedroom_tax
I would appreciate it if members wouldn't tag me please. I have all notifcations turned off and wouldn't want a member thinking i'm being rude by not replying.If i see a question that i know the answer to i will try my best to help. -
One option for your Mum would be downsizing.
That way she wouldn't have her UC Housing Element reduced as no spare bedroom.
Councils often have incentive schemes and help available to facilitate this- my Mum downsized and received much financial and practical support.
I appreciate though that your Mum may not want to move, just throwing it out there as on option. Even if it's a no from her now, she may change her mind in the future. -
Kimmy87 said:One option for your Mum would be downsizing.
That way she wouldn't have her UC Housing Element reduced as no spare bedroom.
Councils often have incentive schemes and help available to facilitate this- my Mum downsized and received much financial and practical support.
I appreciate though that your Mum may not want to move, just throwing it out there as on option. Even if it's a no from her now, she may change her mind in the future.Mental Health Matters. -
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis @Ali_lovesTheUK
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Kimmy87 said:One option for your Mum would be downsizing.
That way she wouldn't have her UC Housing Element reduced as no spare bedroom.
Councils often have incentive schemes and help available to facilitate this- my Mum downsized and received much financial and practical support.
I appreciate though that your Mum may not want to move, just throwing it out there as on option. Even if it's a no from her now, she may change her mind in the future.Seasons greetings to one and all 🎄🎅🏻🌲 -
woodbine said:Kimmy87 said:One option for your Mum would be downsizing.
That way she wouldn't have her UC Housing Element reduced as no spare bedroom.
Councils often have incentive schemes and help available to facilitate this- my Mum downsized and received much financial and practical support.
I appreciate though that your Mum may not want to move, just throwing it out there as on option. Even if it's a no from her now, she may change her mind in the future.
Councils and HA's are desperate for family sized homes.
For example when Mum downsized she was automatically placed into the highest bidding band. Obviously varies from LA to LA but you get the idea.
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