So I've got my first ever PIP assessment on 17th - about a week away. I'm worried. Scared. I'm trying not to get too stressed - telling myself the worst they can do is say no.
Problem is I won't have anyone for moral support during the phone call and I'm worried they'll just think I'm fine and that I'm come across as not disabled 'enough' as I tend to over-prepare to attempt to keep anxiety at bey (it doesn't always work). I'm also worried because I'll have no broadband or landline when they ring - am switching providers and if my mobile signal goes, I'm sunk.
I've also heard some horror stories and all the weird and embarrassing questions they ask like about pets, how many steps it takes me to do x or y, about money etc. I just get panicked and loose my train of thought.
Can anyone give any advice for me? I know they can't predict the questions they ask and I know I have to have a copy of my application with my answers - but it sounds like they ask a lot of questions not covered on the form. I've also just recently been diagnosed with diabetes which I didn't put on the form because I only found out a couple of weeks ago. Will I get into trouble for that? Also I'm worried about them asking about my living situation (which I'm sure they will) as it's complicated by my step-dad's dementia -I'm not his carer (he has carers four times a day) but if there's a problem when carers aren't here, I'm forced to sort it because we unfortunately live together (not by my choice). I don't want them to think I'm his carer (and therefore can't be disabled).
Sorry I'm rambling. I'm just wondering if anyone has advice? My Internet's being cut off on 13th until 19th (when new broadband is installed) so I wanted to try to get some thoughts before then.
So, any advice or tips would be really appreciated!