How is your day going?

Schildpad

Morning @Sandy_123 thank you.I wrote a long message to the group and I think it is better to slow down. I was doing more than I could cope. So I will not go to that place on Friday. And maybe is time to think about a new life form the next year. Maybe some volunteer charity job. Not sure . Now I want to move on or at least try to move on... I only had Tuesday and the weekend off. So it will be good to have Friday off and change it for something else. But hope to feel better...

Sandy_123

Suns out today

durhamjaide2001

good evening everyone how's everyone doing?

Sandy_123

Hi @durhamjaide2001

osrbsj

morning I haven’t opened the curtains yet got a tens machine on my back! Hope there’s some sun today for everyone!

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/926708#Comment_926708

Morning they forecast strong winds here

Sandy_123

Morning @osrbsj hope the tens machine helps with your pain

Sandy_123

Morning @Nightcity it's dark and rain here

Sandy_123

Stands a good chance of us getting the gardens sorted this week, as no rain forecast after today.

Teigr

Morning all.

The sun is trying to come out here after a night of rain and gales.

Teigr

No rain for us until Thursday @Sandy_123 ,according to the forecast.

We'll see.

Sandy_123

Brightening up here this afternoon @Teigr

Sandy_123

Yeah @Teigr I've got to give the ground a few days to dry out before we put the mower on

Teigr

It stopped raining at about 8 o'clock @Sandy_123 ,but it's still blowing a gale.

osrbsj

@Sandy_123 @Teigr @Nightcity thanks for your comments yes tens machine worked a treat. Still raining here ☔️ 🌧️ first day I feel more like myself after Covid and flu jabs!! X

Bluebell21

Hi @vikki66 I think you are an amazing person that does your best for your family and anyone on the forum you can help. It can be a small thing that can make us cry as the bigger things we deal with. We are here for you anytime you want to say you are struggling and we will always listen.

Take care.

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/926917#Comment_926917

Ah vikki so sorry you have so much going on your always offering support such kind words and defending people ie myself I look forward to seeing you on here just take time out for yourself always tomorrow and moving forward promise you will focus on your needs everyone has thier breaking point be strong for everyone is hard sometimes people think it's selfish if they take time out it's essential to recharge regroup its especially hard when your kids suffering and you haven't grieved remember you need support as well focus on your needs you are one person make a plan could be talking to doctor and opening up and having support start tomorrow if you can big big hugs sometimes our brains overload and bed with curtains shut is essential big big hugs xx

Schildpad

Not going out . Weather is really bad. Not good. Nor I believe I will go to most of my gatherings next week. It is good to see people but only if is the right people.. the following week I will go but not anymore on Fridays. Someone mentioned a tens machine . I have one but had to stop using it as it triggered my anxiety really badly but I tried today on my leg and might keep trying . It was not as bad but a bit scared.

I believe I got somehow inmuned and it doesn't work anymore. But somehow I don't get on well with the machine also my heart races. Happy to hear it works for some people . I still have it and will try gradually on my leg. A different place from where I was using it previously. And I guess bad weather does not help. Hopefully tomorrow the sun will come out. I made my mind. Will not go to that place tomorrow. Have to put myself together. Take care you all.. and try not to get a cold.

Durhamshire

My day had bedn terrible. Lonely. Haven't had energy to get out of bed. Just wish I could push a button and no longer exist.

Apologies for being negative again

Teigr

No need to apologise for the way you feel @Durhamshire