How is your day going?

Schildpad

good night. i am in a rather low mood.i just do not feel things will get better and scared thing will get worse. . i hope tomorrow will be a good day but i feel it will be just as bad.. until tomorrow……

Schildpad

if there is way when you are alone on your own you should talk to someone. is there a person like a social worker where you could talk to. this is pretty serious. that behavior is very controlling can you pass the healthcare etc. to someone else. you should chose who you feel comfortable with. as i said we do not choose our parents. you could try someone you feel more suitable than your mother and someone who will not control you in such way. sometimes the computer chooses the words .. now it has been corrected and i hope it makes sense.

Chris75_

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069293#Comment_1069293

It is easy for me, I know, but what would happen if you asked her to wait outside, right in front of the doctor?

Elvisdog

@Chris75_ no it wasn't meant for me, that was my first post. It's was the qoute I was addressing not the messenger. My apologies to anyone who thought the same @WhatThe if you also thought that too, my sincere apologies. It probably wasn't worded properly by me. 🫠

durhamjaide2001

good evening everyone

Katiedimelow20

Chris75 my mum will try to control me when i get angry at her and she get very explosive of anger to my mum also already went through the menopause . it doesn't matter what emotion i'm in and i get judge, same invalidation

and mock for being anxious more and was already overwhelm and also

Embarrassment, with crying at work at Friday . they kept asking to my mum .

Elvisdog

@Katiedimelow20 its worrying that you don't have an advocate that you would want for yourself. Do you have a social worker? Anyone you can talk to alone? It's very hard it took me years to stand up to my parents, and it was by a letter to them, i gave a copy to my sister asking for her permission as it was about both of us. Also a copy to my gp and social worker. It ended up in heated words following a two year separation, i was so very scared, that's why i had to put it in writing. We finally reconciled and I'm in a better place with them now. Im not as open with my dad but tell my mum things past and future and accept their help when I need it. It's not something I would recommend to you or anyone else, that was my journey but i hope you know that there is help and hope out there.

Katiedimelow20

@Elvisdog i not sure if i do have social worker and i got two sister that doesn't want to help and more about to ask mum about it . work colleague don't even help to

Amberpearl

Still in agony with my knee

I've trued Ice pack raising legs and paracetamol

Don't work

Amberpearl

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069226#Comment_1069226

The mice seem tk have finally gone on their own accord thank god

I had a text from NHS my xray is 6 oct

Dr gave me codeine ive took paracetamol

How do you cope with the pain

It's agony sitting and rising from a, seat

And the stairs is excruciating

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069281#Comment_1069281

Your a great mum to your sons Elvisdog me to with my mum I was put in care at 11 have very fractured relationship with my mum growing up its so hard when they gaslight you and pushes more buttons so you get triggered and then they blame you I do feel for you as very overwhelming at times just know your feelings thoughts are very important

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069280#Comment_1069280

Thankyou luvpink

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069295#Comment_1069295

Have hope things will get better i wish for you to have a relaxing day

Schildpad

Hope you are a bit better a well. I am in less pain this morning but anxiety is so so. Buy I will go out a bit as weather has improved.

luvpink

Morning all

I have woken up exhausted again but I am going to go out for a while later as I will be stuck indoors for the next couple of days.

I hope you all manage to have a good day.

Santosha12

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069341#Comment_1069341

So sorry Amberpearl not replying yet, been to 'see a man about a dog' this morning 😂. Ill reply shortly just sorting the mutts out i might DM you if that's ok, it's hope you're ok today, got a few ideas for you xx

Santosha12

Dm'ed you now @Amberpearl x

Santosha12

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1069341#Comment_1069341

I've DM'ed you now Amberpearl. It might be worth you asking your GP to refer you to physio in the meantime. My area is a long wait for that, my appt is 3rd Oct/waited c 12 weeks.

I've set up my 'cat repellent' machine near to where there's supposed to be 'A rat' 🙄. I think it's supposed to repel rodents too so I'll see but no movement in the soil close by since I set it up. Im still feeding the birds but making sure there's no spillage.

Santosha12

I hope you are doing ok today @Catherine21 . I use the term 'ok' loosely - it will take time and, I'm sure, many, many up and down days. Just thinking of you anyway and sending love and hugs xx ps always feel to DM me at any time too.

Katiedimelow20

hey, I'm getting sick of it with my mother and how she treat me and doesn't seem to treat my two sister completely differed I'm just playing big run on salmon run